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i have 5 babies w/ diff dads so what

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i just read a post about how many babies dads do you know of someone having and A LOT of you were talking crap. look not all of us have nice men in our lives so does that mean we can't have healthy sex lives?! i fight with my step sister about this all the time just because she is married and has no idea what its like to be single. i have 6 kids the first i had when i was 15my SO at the time was 17 and a complete jerk we had two together before we split when i was 19 in that same year i had a one night stand (i was on the rebound and naive) got prego with #3 which i had to give up for adpotion :( then i went into bad depression and got prego (i will admit kinda on purpose) with #4 that guy i found out was cheating through my whole pregnancy so i left 2 weeks before she was born. then i met this guy through my moms friend while i was staying with her (not knowing he was a huge player and had 3 kids he didnt take care of from his WIFE who he was separated from) smh i seriously have the worst luck..... but now i met my fiance and we planned this baby due in june :) ...... so please girls dont judge a book by the cover some girls just have REALLY bad luck.

please no haters im just trying to explain from the other side

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 3:57 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:05 AM
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She never said you were a bad Mother. But that your children will be put threw drama.

Howdo you plan to explain to them why they all have different Fathers?

And that you knowingly did it?

Quoting Anonymous:

why are you bring my kids into this im a good mom!! 




Quoting Anonymous:

Nope you are just stupid for putting your kids through that drama



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:05 AM

my kids are great..... happy and cared for stop judging when you dont know anything about how i raise them 


Quoting Anonymous:

Lmao. Please be a troll. For the love of Pete woman. That's to much drama for me. Why would you subject your children to that madness?


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:05 AM
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 you willingly slept with all those men, that's not bad luck that's bad decision making skills.....

bad luck...ffs!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:06 AM
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How is it bad luck? A mistake is one time.. not 5. Why didn't you go on birth control?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:07 AM
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not all my kids were planned but they are all loved thats all they need to know 


Quoting Anonymous:

She never said you were a bad Mother. But that your children will be put threw drama.

Howdo you plan to explain to them why they all have different Fathers?

And that you knowingly did it?

Quoting Anonymous:

why are you bring my kids into this im a good mom!! 


 


Quoting Anonymous:

Nope you are just stupid for putting your kids through that drama

 


 


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:07 AM
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Wait a minute, how old are you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:07 AM
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I could have chosen to have 5 baby daddies, but I chose to get married and stay married with kids.  It's not easy, but it was my choice.  You chose to randomly hook up with whoever and keep having kids.  Even if it was bad luck, have you not heard of birth control?  Poor kids.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:08 AM
That isn't a satisfying answer. Ill bet they will watch the truth.

Quoting Anonymous:

not all my kids were planned but they are all loved thats all they need to know 




Quoting Anonymous:

She never said you were a bad Mother. But that your children will be put threw drama.

Howdo you plan to explain to them why they all have different Fathers?

And that you knowingly did it?


Quoting Anonymous:


why are you bring my kids into this im a good mom!! 



 



Quoting Anonymous:

Nope you are just stupid for putting your kids through that drama


 



 




 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:09 AM
After explaining you feel like your justified? Ok, no judgment, hope your kids do the same!
vvinkyloafer
by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 4:10 AM
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Umm, nobody should be having children, let alone a sex life, willingly at fifteen.
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