I'm sure he didn't mean it. Because, as you said, you're tired and snappy because of the baby.
The child didn't know what his father said...and, although you did, and it hurts, you also know he didn't mean it.
Talk it out and you'll be okay.
Ouch! Well...tired, cranky parents of a newborn say icky shit to each other sometimes. Hopefully, he will cool down and realize how particularly icky his shit was.
Right. Because you got pregnant on your own.
Well, what was the argument leading up to this comment?
Quoting Anonymous:He sounds like you are ignoring his feelings.
Quoting Anonymous:Well, what was the argument leading up to this comment?
It might be time for some marriage counseling. Something is going on, especially if this isn't normal behavior for him.
Husbands often feel ignored right after a baby is born, they get feelings of jealousy even if they don't want to admit it. Newborns take up a lot of your time, the time your DH is use to getting.
Sit down and talk it out, try to find ways to show your DH that he is still very important to you.
i wouldve replied with, no, i shouldve found a new husband to have him with!
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