I've been divorced for over ten years, when we first split I needed state aid to help me get on my feet. Well, times have changed and I moved to a different state. I haven't gone to support enforcement A. Because he was unemployed when I moved and I figured it would be harder for him if the state was after him at that time, and B. Because I thought it might bee time we work together to take care of this. Well, he is now gainfully employed again and I contacted him about paying his support. He says that I am out of my mind! He doesn't owe because the state isn't garnishing his wages anymore. I tried to remind him that support isn't a state thing and it doesn't have to be, but after a few more crazy rants about needing handouts to survive I decided that support enforcement is the way to go :-( Can anyone tell me how it is that somebody could view child support as a flippin handout? This prick doesn't even send christmas presents, I do everything for the girls! It would really be nice to actually not have all the responsiblity fall on my shoulders all the time. Last time I checked he helped make these kids..