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Child support is a handout?!

Anonymous
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I've been divorced for over ten years, when we first split I needed state aid to help me get on my feet. Well, times have changed and I moved to a different state. I haven't gone to support enforcement A. Because he was unemployed when I moved and I figured it would be harder for him if the state was after him at that time, and B. Because I thought it might bee time we work together to take care of this. Well, he is now gainfully employed again and I contacted him about paying his support. He says that I am out of my mind! He doesn't owe because the state isn't garnishing his wages anymore. I tried to remind him that support isn't a state thing and it doesn't have to be, but after a few more crazy rants about needing handouts to survive I decided that support enforcement is the way to go :-( Can anyone tell me how it is that somebody could view child support as a flippin handout? This prick doesn't even send christmas presents, I do everything for the girls! It would really be nice to actually not have all the responsiblity fall on my shoulders all the time. Last time I checked he helped make these kids..
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:10 PM
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time_warp
by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:11 PM
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He is a major douche.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:13 PM

eeek.  Im sorry I have no advice or expierance in this.  But I am sorry that you poor girls have a pos like that for a father :*(

Diamepphyre
by Ruby Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:14 PM
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Um, no!  A father needs to support his children.  He needs to grow the hell up.

opal10161973
by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:14 PM
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Men like this need a cock punch.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:14 PM
Tell me about it! We have gotten pretty good about talking over parenting. I guess money will never stop being a sore spot!


Quoting time_warp:

He is a major douche.

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:15 PM
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what a dick. I hope he gets his wages garnished again

sthflachk
by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:15 PM
This

Quoting Diamepphyre:

Um, no!  A father needs to support his children.  He needs to grow the hell up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:15 PM

Why didn't you ask for alimony?

Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:15 PM
It is. Why can't you support them on your own?
HotMomma2622
by Gold Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 12:16 PM
If I was you I would take him back to court.
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