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My significant other wants me to swallow and I find it gross!

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My significant other just confessed to me last night that he would marry me if I swallowed. I want to make him happy and do the deed, but i find swallowing completly repulsive. Are there any suggestions that you ladies have that could help me get over this fear and just do it for him? I kind of have mixed feelings because he used the line "if you really love me then...". We I really do love him a lot, but swallowing has never been my thing. I've tried it a few times and I just end up throwing up. He just tells me that our relationship can't go any further and he willn't marry me if I don't swallow. Seriously, I find this very one sided and selfish. We have a child together and I have been with him for 12 years and he just now tells me this. Help am I doing the right thing?

by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:01 PM
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angie944
by Silver Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:07 PM

That is crappy that he would only marry you on the terms of swallowing during oral.. he sounds like a douche, and you are better off without him!! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:07 PM

You should dump him for the ultimatum.


Quoting isaacsmom2013:

But he wants me to and I am trying to be accommodating.


Quoting Anonymous:

You shouldn't if you don't want to.


Quoting isaacsmom2013:


What's your technique? Do you have one? Any suggestions?

Quoting Anonymous:

I always swallow. I love giving head and it is a sexy part of it.









GreenEyePixie
by Platinum Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:07 PM
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Thank you for saying this. It is exactly what I was thinking. That and why have you been with this dude for twelve years?

Quoting armywifey26:

He will only marry you if you swallow???

That is the most absurd thing I have ever heard

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Miss-B
by ‚ô•Divalicious‚ô• on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:08 PM
Lol.. Right.

Quoting ColleenF30:

He would never get head from me again.

akrall83
by Silver Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:08 PM
Anyone who uses the line, "if you loved me you would..." is not nature enough to be married. That kind of thing doesn't fly with me and i would be gone.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:09 PM

begone to the so then..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:09 PM

Luvizth3drug
by Bronze Member on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:10 PM
Honestly I swallow. It's not as bad as it seems. My husband is the first person I have done this for. I used to think it was gross too but after I did it, it's really not bad. You should try it and if you don't like it don't do it again. But make sure you are comfortable doing it.
Pink.Sunshine.
by on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:10 PM

bahahahahahahahaha!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 26, 2013 at 5:10 PM
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Sounds like someone has been watching to much porn....

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