Sometimes I feel like the only overweight chic that doesn't find it an attractive thing.
I see all these posts about how sexy you can be obese, or how thick is hot. I just don't get it. I'm over weight. Not to the point, though, of being grotesque or anything. I'm in decent shape but I really like to eat. After four kids, and eating what I want the pounds have added up. I'm not proud of it. I don't think it's sexy and I'm working on losing it.
I've never been small and will never wear anything below a 12 which is what would be the norm for my body. I'm not so ashamed of my body that I hide it from my husband. It's not like I think women need to be a size 2 to be cute, but really, can we really consider ourselves actually sexy when we are overweight? I can FEEL sexy, and I can look as sexy to my husband as I can at the weight I am at, but this shouldn't be a thing to which my daughters strive.
For all the ladies out there that aren't small, how do you feel about being bigger and being sexy?