I found a message from my husband to another woman that said.... UPDATE!!
"I love you". It totally broke my heart. I confronted him, and he said that he says that to all his friends. I know that he is very social, but would you be ok with your DH saying I love you twice in a message to another woman? She was asking him if he was ok. He responded, " I don't want to talk about it sorry I love you". He repeated I love you in another sentence.
He is trying to make me feel like I am overreacting, what do you think?
So Sorry for taking so long to update. So this is what happened after I found that message.
My DH keeps denying everything, but as they say "actions speak louder than words." I think it was an emotinal long distance relationship. She lives in another country, and she is married. So I know they didn't have a physical relationship. She deleted her facebook account right after I sent her a message. I regret not messaging the husband.
My husband won't accept that there was anything between them. He just says that they are friends and that he meant it as a "love ya" kind if thing. Plus, he also deleted his facebook account. Yeah I know Asshole. He still tried to make me feel like I was overreacting, but I asked him to leave.
He won't leave, we are just sleeping in separate rooms. He is also kissing my ass. He sent me flowers to work, he brought me lunch to work, he bought me Victoria secret panties, and he is spending a lot more time with our children. He is more guilty than I thought.
One thing I am sure is that he hasn't traveled anywhere.
What pisses me off is that our marriage was based on trust since the beginning. He knows he can leave if he is not happy with me. I am well off financially. I make enough money to support myself and my two girls. That is not a problem. Emotionally, I am still hurt and dissapointed