No I don't think It was wrong of me to bring snacks for my dd and not for the other kids at the party
Dd is diabetic, sil gave me a list of the foods that would be there so I could figure out what dd could eat and could pack extra food accordingly.
Now dd could it some of the foods that would be there (hot dogs, hamburgers)
But there would be various snacks she couldn't eat.
So I packed some celery, cheese cubes, gold fish crackers, yogurt (it was a sleep over party), things like that to last through the night when the other kids were snacking on Sugary treats
Cake and ice cream was on the list, but I wasn't sure of the carb or sugar content since she had it made at a bakery, so I packed up some cookies that I know she can eat, and some low carb frozen yogurt to replace the ice cream if it were to have to much sugar.
So we went to the party
The kids played and ate lunch
Cake and ice cream time came,
Dd was able to have a small piece After I took a majority of the mountain of frosting off. And she had some frozen yogurt with it (I ate the same things with here, I am diabetic too)
The kids played some more games,
Couple hours later sil said
"I have a suprise for everyone, if you go to the dining room you can all make your very own ice cream
Sil hadnt told me about the sundaes so I hadn't prepared for that and dd was pretty upset that she couldn't have a Sundae with the other kids.
Her blood sugar had been running a little lower than normal so it wasn't going to hurt if she are an appropriate snack.
There was frozen yogurt left but she couldn't have ice cream toppings,
So took the cookies and made both of is an ice cream sandwhich with the yogurt and decorated the outside with a few sprinkles.'
She seemed happier and we sat down in the kitchen to eat them.
Well one of the other kids walked in and asked why she was eating that instead of a sundae. So dd told him.
And he left the room.
Well apperantly he told the other kids and they all wanted cookies.
Sil came in and said "you know, it wasn't very fair of you too
Bring cookies if you weren't doing to
Bring them for all the kids"
We were eating in the kitchen, away from the other kids
They were eating massive sundaes which my daughter couldnt eat
And after those sundaes did they really need a cookie!?
She then proceeded to go on about how that was so rude.
Well if she had told me on advance that there would be a sundae buffet, then I could've adequately prepared and would've brought enough cookies that other kids could have some
I brought enough of every other food
Because I knew they would be used.
I onle brought 4 cookies because I wasn't sure if they would be needed during cake time or not, and had they been needed during cake time no
One wouldve wanted hers because they all had cookies right after lunch.
I told her that I would run to the store and buy a package of cookies but that i was not going to apologize when I dont feel like I did anything wrong.