This month was really busy. Lots of medical stuff and work commitments filled the month. DD also turned 7, and DH graduated. While normally I don't do combined parties I was backed into a corner in regards to time, so we had one. DD had her friends over and DH had his family over. It was a cook out so it wasn't a huge deal EXCEPT his family brought beer. DH and I both are non drinkers but if it were just a cook out I wouldn't care anyhow, the problem is it wasn't. It was a kids birthday and I found inappropriate. I didn't make them leave but I asked they consume it out front or in the garage (where kids weren't). DH is upset and calling me rude. Was I?