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He want's me to be more sexually adventurous -PIOG

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
And I don't know how to be that way . I been threw a lot sexually and i don't know but my limbo is shot its barely there and our relationship is riding on me getting over this forsaken hump! I want to be but when it comes time it shuts down . I feel so bad because i want to and then poof the want is gone little a wisp in air . So what should i do please help
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:25 AM
Replies (11-20):
shyone_91786
by Silver Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:36 AM

Can't or wont because it is easy i use to think it was gross but now I love doing it just seeing him get off and knowing that I am making him happy is a thrill and there are books and google to help with different positions, it's only as good as you make it.

Quoting Anonymous:

well different things i only do missionary and doggy with him he wants more flavor i guess and i cant do a BJ so that dont help none

Quoting cnjsmith:

What is "more adventurous" to him?


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting cnjsmith:

Do you have any toys? I was do prude at first but it made it fun after I got over it

i have two toys a dildo and a egg 




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:38 AM

Once he made me a Jack and moonshine with pepsi drink and it took one and i was ago but i dont like to drink because that just masks the issue

Quoting cnjsmith:

Well I don't know if you drink but I know when I've had a few I let him do ALMOST whatever he wants


Quoting Anonymous:

well different things i only do missionary and doggy with him he wants more flavor i guess and i cant do a BJ so that dont help none

Quoting cnjsmith:

What is "more adventurous" to him?





Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting cnjsmith:

Do you have any toys? I was do prude at first but it made it fun after I got over it

i have two toys a dildo and a egg 






Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:38 AM
I like getting dh right when were cuddling and hes passing out hes very open at that point...umm if you have a close friend you can try a 3 some
shyone_91786
by Silver Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:39 AM

so have I, I lived 16 years with a step dad who I am just now figuring out that he probally wanted to sleep with my I was also sexually abused as a kid, I went through a lot but I also had to get me back and get over it some how these are issue that your going to have to work on. Sorry not trying to be mean or be little what you went through but with our help it will effect your relationship.

Quoting Anonymous:

I have had a few sexual tramas as both a child and an adult and also i was mentally abused not by SO mind you but the affects are still there 

Quoting shyone_91786:

I use to be that way but you have to do things that you like to do have fun don't make is serious all the time, that's what I had to learn. 90% of women on here has had problems one way or another. Is it that you are embassaed about your body, I'm a big girl but I have fun I figure this way there must be something right if he is already in the bed with me so who cares and just have fun.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:41 AM

Does he have any ideas when it comes to being more adventurous?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:43 AM

while i am doing it he says" i am fucking amazeing " as he puts it but my neck locks up and hurts so i cant keep going we do keep trying i have yet to find that spot that fits for me

Quoting shyone_91786:

Can't or wont because it is easy i use to think it was gross but now I love doing it just seeing him get off and knowing that I am making him happy is a thrill and there are books and google to help with different positions, it's only as good as you make it.

Quoting Anonymous:

well different things i only do missionary and doggy with him he wants more flavor i guess and i cant do a BJ so that dont help none

Quoting cnjsmith:

What is "more adventurous" to him?


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting cnjsmith:

Do you have any toys? I was do prude at first but it made it fun after I got over it

i have two toys a dildo and a egg 





Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:46 AM

I am in therapy which has been helping me to accept what happened and I have heard worse from my own family telling me its not that big of a deal which did not help me in the least but i cut them out so things are looking up 

Quoting shyone_91786:

so have I, I lived 16 years with a step dad who I am just now figuring out that he probally wanted to sleep with my I was also sexually abused as a kid, I went through a lot but I also had to get me back and get over it some how these are issue that your going to have to work on. Sorry not trying to be mean or be little what you went through but with our help it will effect your relationship.

Quoting Anonymous:

I have had a few sexual tramas as both a child and an adult and also i was mentally abused not by SO mind you but the affects are still there 

Quoting shyone_91786:

I use to be that way but you have to do things that you like to do have fun don't make is serious all the time, that's what I had to learn. 90% of women on here has had problems one way or another. Is it that you are embassaed about your body, I'm a big girl but I have fun I figure this way there must be something right if he is already in the bed with me so who cares and just have fun.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:47 AM

something more then missonary and doggy 

Quoting Anonymous:

Does he have any ideas when it comes to being more adventurous?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:49 AM


Quoting LisaSmock:

Read a sex help book ?

there is books like that ?

shyone_91786
by Silver Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 3:53 AM

You have to swtich it up it's not all about your mouth use your hands too lol. Then move away from his penis and kiss the back of his kness, you can suck on  his balls or his inner thighs. don't go stright to his penis take your time to build him up even more.

Quoting Anonymous:

while i am doing it he says" i am fucking amazeing " as he puts it but my neck locks up and hurts so i cant keep going we do keep trying i have yet to find that spot that fits for me

Quoting shyone_91786:

Can't or wont because it is easy i use to think it was gross but now I love doing it just seeing him get off and knowing that I am making him happy is a thrill and there are books and google to help with different positions, it's only as good as you make it.

Quoting Anonymous:

well different things i only do missionary and doggy with him he wants more flavor i guess and i cant do a BJ so that dont help none

Quoting cnjsmith:

What is "more adventurous" to him?


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting cnjsmith:

Do you have any toys? I was do prude at first but it made it fun after I got over it

i have two toys a dildo and a egg 






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