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I can't stand my husband

Anonymous
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At all. AT ALL. It went from bring so amazing, to amazing with rough spots, to rough spots with amazing spots. Now it is only rough.
It is making me such a mean person because I can't stand him.
We are supposed to be moving across the country, away from both of our families because of a job transfer. I am a SAHM with no money and no education.
I feel so trapped.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:11 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:12 AM
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Have some angry sex and find a job. Maybe you just need to get out of the house?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:12 AM

Don't move away. Move with your family while you still have the opportunity.

beco8627
by Gold Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:15 AM
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Perhaps you could develop a new way of thinking and consider it a fresh start? Otherwise, leave the guy if you're THAT miserable and don't think your relationship is salvageable.
cfcf
by Gold Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:16 AM
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I'm sorry :(

Without knowing specifics of your marriage I can say mine is a roller coaster. When its good its great and when it's bad it feels unbearable at times. Counseling? There are some great books out there if counseling is out of the question. One I haven't read but looks intense is Should We Stay Together. It's a book combined with questionnaires that help you solve the differences between the two if you. Also, The Five Love Languages.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:16 AM
So leave. Wth?
April_Mommy_87
by on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:16 AM

once you get moved then find help for daycare and go back to school

dommad2
by Platinum Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:17 AM
Do you want to save your marriage or are you ready to get out?
Pink.Sunshine.
by on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:18 AM
Do not go then. You'll regret it! Life is too short to be unhappy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:20 AM
Quoting beco8627:

Perhaps you could develop a new way of thinking and consider it a fresh start? Otherwise, leave the guy if you're THAT miserable and don't think your relationship is salvageable.



Ive tried this approach but it always comes crumbling down. My husband is the kind of man who will never change. So even as i change my point of view and try to be happy, he always finds a way to tear me dowb
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 9:22 AM
Quoting dommad2:

Do you want to save your marriage or are you ready to get out?



Im not really sure. That is why I feel stuck. My mom always tells me, no matter how many times someone tells you to leave a man, you wont until you are ready.
I guess I must not be ready if I feel so confused.
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