oh gosh idk what to do now.. hubby left me out of the will
Well, he certainly made sure DD was taken care of, but his will leaves me utterly destitute. (I am working on a degree in nursing so I can take care of myself). His will names me as the executor and leaves me with his personal effects. It names DD as the trust for the entire SGLI and directs that his funeral be paid from whatever funds we may have in our bank account. He named his sister as the trustee until DD reaches the age of 25. She can give money for the care and keeping of his daughter and any future "issue" ie DS. I am left with whatever accounts may be left. His will in the very last sentence says, "I specifically request that my executor consult with a retired veterans affairs officer at the nearest military installation, the Department of Veterans Affairs, and the Social Security Administration to ascertain any benefits I, my heirs, or dependents may be entitled to.
He says a lot goes on in pre-mob and that he had no idea, that he did not read the will before he signed it, that since he listed me as primary on his SGLI benefits that he thought this was in case I died, but he cannot really answer any questions as to why then I am named as Executor of it, or why it leaves me his affects. He was just like well, some parts were if you died and some were not, and I was confused.
We were having a lot of problems for a while before he left. Maybe he was planning on divorcing me, and since things got better after the deployment he never mentioned it and forgot about this. Something just seems super fishy....