Today was my friends bridal shower lunch. I have had the date marked on the calender for weeks, i put it on cozi, I have a save the date magnet on the fridge, I reminded DH last night, I even mentioned before church that we were meeting at 1 for lunch. we got home from church, I went upstairs to put the baby down, change my clothes and fix my hair. while this was going on apparently DH's buddy called to invite him golfing. I come downstairs and ds is crying, I ask whats wrong and he says daddy wouldn't let him go play with him and his friend, so thinking DH is at the neighbors house I call him to let him know he has to come home so I can leave. that ass starts yelling at me about how he has a 1pm tee time and he's not coming home so I can gossip over lunch. WTF! I haven't gone out in months, he goes out and golfs or plays poker 3 times a month and I cant go to a bridal shower that I told him about several times. Whatever I hope he likes burnt food, starched or dirty underwear and sleeping on the couch, I am beyond pissed right now!