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So what if he's gay!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Anyone else have a DS who enjoys watching princess movies, doing girly stuff?

My DS LOVES Princess Sophia, Princess stuff, he loves to play "mommy" with his "babies" (stuffed animals), etc.....there are others I can't think of atm.

I keep getting told that I'm going to turn my son gay by allowing it....

Well, soooo what?!?!? He is going to be who he's going to be one way or another.

Eta: I keep getting lectured about how gay isn't a preference, how it's a sexual orientation.....or just plain lectured and I don't know why. This post is saying OTHERS are telling me this. I DO NOT CARE if my son likes boys, girls are both. I do not care if he wants to walk around in a princess dress and heels in public. I'm allowing him to be himself and don't care what others try and tell me.

I am his mother, it is my job to support his decisions and love him unconditionally. My job is to guide him through life, not to judge him for what he may or may not be. I'm allowing him to explore as much as he wants.

I was just asking a simple question.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 28, 2013 at 10:56 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:13 PM

I think it's disgusting


Quoting Anonymous:

You know their is a group of men into my little ponies as a sexual thing.


Quoting Anonymous:


He knows I don't think him watching my little ponies and calling himself a Brony is appropriate. He knows that if he is gonna shove crap up his ass he needs to clean up after it. And he is not going on any church trips this year since he won't get a job. We still play games together and laugh and joke. He does know that both dh and I are anti gay.


Quoting Anonymous:

You don't have to talk bad to someone for them to know that you dislike them.



Quoting Anonymous:

No I don't. I never talk bad to him or around him. He is failing high school. He says homework is a waste of time. He doesnt want a job, but wants money. He won't get his drivers license. And he's the one who shoved the flashlight up his ass.




Quoting Anonymous:

Hmmm. Do you think he might do those things because of your animosity towards him?





Quoting Anonymous:

It's not just the gay thing. He lies constantly, sodomizes himself and leaves the evidence everywhere. Refuses to help with chores. Won't get a job, won't pass his classes. The gay thing would be the last straw. I can't stand him and want him gone.





Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad that you would throw him out for being gay. 😞







Quoting Anonymous:

My ss is 17 and watches My Little Pony. Has never dated. And is a wuss. Pretty sure he's gay. If he comes out of the closet he will be moving out of my house.
















Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:14 PM
That's a first for me!!!!! I feel honored! :)

Quoting mommy_me:

Don't feed the trolls
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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You can't make him gay.

My son had blurred gender roles before kindergarten.. but now..  He won't even wear his adventure time socks to school....... sigh.

 


   

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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Oh I couldn't agree more!! I was just letting you know


Quoting Anonymous:

I think it's disgusting



Quoting Anonymous:

You know their is a group of men into my little ponies as a sexual thing.





Quoting Anonymous:


He knows I don't think him watching my little ponies and calling himself a Brony is appropriate. He knows that if he is gonna shove crap up his ass he needs to clean up after it. And he is not going on any church trips this year since he won't get a job. We still play games together and laugh and joke. He does know that both dh and I are anti gay.



Quoting Anonymous:

You don't have to talk bad to someone for them to know that you dislike them.





Quoting Anonymous:

No I don't. I never talk bad to him or around him. He is failing high school. He says homework is a waste of time. He doesnt want a job, but wants money. He won't get his drivers license. And he's the one who shoved the flashlight up his ass.





Quoting Anonymous:

Hmmm. Do you think he might do those things because of your animosity towards him?







Quoting Anonymous:

It's not just the gay thing. He lies constantly, sodomizes himself and leaves the evidence everywhere. Refuses to help with chores. Won't get a job, won't pass his classes. The gay thing would be the last straw. I can't stand him and want him gone.






Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad that you would throw him out for being gay. 😞









Quoting Anonymous:

My ss is 17 and watches My Little Pony. Has never dated. And is a wuss. Pretty sure he's gay. If he comes out of the closet he will be moving out of my house.






















Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:15 PM


Lutheran and we are very involved in our church. We've even asked our pastor to talk to him. SS's lack of motivation is worrisome to everyone.

Quoting Anonymous:

Church trips? What religion are you? I doubt if you are a christian. You don't sound like one.

Quoting Anonymous:


He knows I don't think him watching my little ponies and calling himself a Brony is appropriate. He knows that if he is gonna shove crap up his ass he needs to clean up after it. And he is not going on any church trips this year since he won't get a job. We still play games together and laugh and joke. He does know that both dh and I are anti gay.


Quoting Anonymous:

You don't have to talk bad to someone for them to know that you dislike them.



Quoting Anonymous:

No I don't. I never talk bad to him or around him. He is failing high school. He says homework is a waste of time. He doesnt want a job, but wants money. He won't get his drivers license. And he's the one who shoved the flashlight up his ass.




Quoting Anonymous:

Hmmm. Do you think he might do those things because of your animosity towards him?





Quoting Anonymous:

It's not just the gay thing. He lies constantly, sodomizes himself and leaves the evidence everywhere. Refuses to help with chores. Won't get a job, won't pass his classes. The gay thing would be the last straw. I can't stand him and want him gone.





Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad that you would throw him out for being gay. 😞







Quoting Anonymous:

My ss is 17 and watches My Little Pony. Has never dated. And is a wuss. Pretty sure he's gay. If he comes out of the closet he will be moving out of my house.















Wifemom.midwife
by on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:15 PM
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Yes and he paints his nails... 

Marti123
by Silver Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:15 PM
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My DH was half-joking, half-serious giving me total grief for letting my DS5 buy a pink glittery book "barbie's pink slippers" at the book fair. I think it is still pretty normal at that age.
Anastacia1988
by on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:17 PM
Omg!!! I remember your post... So nothing got n e better? Dh didn't do anything about it ?


Quoting Anonymous:

No I don't. I never talk bad to him or around him. He is failing high school. He says homework is a waste of time. He doesnt want a job, but wants money. He won't get his drivers license. And he's the one who shoved the flashlight up his ass.



Quoting Anonymous:

Hmmm. Do you think he might do those things because of your animosity towards him?



Quoting Anonymous:

It's not just the gay thing. He lies constantly, sodomizes himself and leaves the evidence everywhere. Refuses to help with chores. Won't get a job, won't pass his classes. The gay thing would be the last straw. I can't stand him and want him gone.




Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad that you would throw him out for being gay. 😞





Quoting Anonymous:

My ss is 17 and watches My Little Pony. Has never dated. And is a wuss. Pretty sure he's gay. If he comes out of the closet he will be moving out of my house.









FoxFire363
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 11:17 PM
It doesn't matter. He's your husband's child. Once he turns 18, fine kick him out. I hope your husband enjoys not having a relationship with him simply because he can't get over his stupid prejudices. You two sound like a couple of assholes and your ss will be better off without you both.


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't support gays sorry. Sue me



Quoting FoxFire363:

Way to show some unconditional love. Smh.





Quoting Anonymous:

My other two kids are normal. Ss is just weird. He does weird shit and is a lazy ass brat. Can't stand him.




Quoting FoxFire363:

You don't deserve to be a parent.








Quoting Anonymous:

My ss is 17 and watches My Little Pony. Has never dated. And is a wuss. Pretty sure he's gay. If he comes out of the closet he will be moving out of my house.














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