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So I just started about a year ago reconnecting with an old friend from High School. Started working out together. She introduced me to her husband who got me on to BeachBody workouts like P90x, Insanity, Turbofire even started running in the early mornings with him. My friend doesn't run because she just hates it so I wake up early some mornings and will go running with her husband, who had become a very good friend/buddy. Well so I thought...I am a happily married woman and he would say he is a happily married man. But apparently he wants a little more from me than just my friendship. We have been buddies and running with each other since last July, well the other day we are facebooking, he is working offshore and that is the only way he communicates when gone. Well we are just talking while I am watching my son's basketball practice (my husband is the coach) he starts talking a little pervy. I mean making comments of how he is horny. Well I'm like you need to talk to your wife, then all of a sudden he sends me a picture of his junk with his hand on it, "saying I can't wait to get home and stick this so deep in you". Then right after that he message me sayin "omg don't look at that I am sorry it was meant to go to my wife, who I am talking to now on Facebook". I'm like ok obviously I can't avoid looking at it since it was right there. But he continues to laugh about it and talk to me about it.
I tell him to finish his business with his wife and I'll talk to him later. He tells me she just went to bed. This all happened that fast. In no way could you be in the middle of sexting then they go to bed that quick. I'm not stupid. So I just tell him I got to go. He has never once been inappropriate with me alone face to face, except for one time when he wanted to stretch me out I had to stop him..Was too weird.
Like I said his wife is a friend of mine and I don't play games and definitely wouldn't do that to a friend or the love of my life. She tells me how she trusts him blah blah, also talks about how she hasn't been giving it up to him.
Do y'all think this was a one time thing or what? He is just a different person on FB?

Sorry how this is written, doing this all from my IPhone.

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:45 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:33 AM
It sounds like he's trying to see if you are interested, the way he keeps bringing up the oops moment. Why is he even bringing it up? Cut ties with him. He seems to have bad intentions!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:34 AM
That is your opinion. Running with a person in no way insinuates sex. lol


Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry but I just think its naive for a married woman to be with another married man alone and not expected this




Quoting Anonymous:

I expect to run. Just because I went running with a man does not in anyway mean I wanted sex from him or anything of that nature. Also the running started out as a group thing but as months went on others dropped out one by one. I kept going because I have a lot of weight to lose and really enjoyed it. His wife and my hubby knew that it was just the two of us left and had no problems. We didn't see it as anything since we are all friends.





But I will no longer be doing anything with him since he has now made such advances to me.






Quoting Anonymous:

You don't go out with another woman's husband jogging or whatnot. What did u expect ?? He's a married man stay the fuck away








Quoting Anonymous:

Where did I over step? I never once gave him the impression that i want anything other than a friendship with him. My husband and his wife know we run, FB and talk on the phone. I truly believe a man and a woman can be friends without any sexual feeling toward one another. I just now after all these months think he has other intentions.










Quoting Anonymous:

You both slowly overstepped the bounds long ago.











And, fb is the devil. I would personally break ties immediately. Jmo.





Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:36 AM

Um, you overstepped when you started going jogging with another woman's husband.  


Quoting Anonymous:

Where did I over step? I never once gave him the impression that i want anything other than a friendship with him. My husband and his wife know we run, FB and talk on the phone. I truly believe a man and a woman can be friends without any sexual feeling toward one another. I just now after all these months think he has other intentions.


Quoting Anonymous:

You both slowly overstepped the bounds long ago.



And, fb is the devil. I would personally break ties immediately. Jmo.


 

zianneaaliyah
by 4ever LMFAO on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:37 AM
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I would stop running with him.  He was trying to feel you out and I wouldn't trust him. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:37 AM
I would stop all contact with him... You're tempting fate now if your husband catches wind of what he's done/doing he'll think you're willingly participating in this... Or why else stick around a married man who is THAT inappropriate with you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:39 AM
Sounds like he's a horny douche, because his wife won't fuck him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:41 AM
I am not "going out" with him. We had a running GROUP, while the months passed by one by one people dropped out and now ( or was) just him and I left. That is all. Never once made a sexual advance on me while we were alone. Just on the Internet, and once while I was at his house with our spouses. As I said. It was a comment about looking at my cleavage.

In this situation I see that he is looking for more but I disagree that the opposite sex can't be just friends. I am great friends with my husbands best friend.

This is all about tryin to stay friends with his wife while hinting her husband is an ass.


Quoting Anonymous:

I've never once heard that one person didn't try to put the moves on the other in these stories where unwed straight opposite sex go out it just doesn't happen furthermore they're married to different people wtf u wanna go out with other married men for




Quoting JLo1486:

Why not if all parties involved are ok with it?





Quoting Anonymous:

You don't go out with another woman's husband jogging or whatnot. What did u expect ?? He's a married man stay the fuck away








Quoting Anonymous:

Where did I over step? I never once gave him the impression that i want anything other than a friendship with him. My husband and his wife know we run, FB and talk on the phone. I truly believe a man and a woman can be friends without any sexual feeling toward one another. I just now after all these months think he has other intentions.










Quoting Anonymous:

You both slowly overstepped the bounds long ago.











And, fb is the devil. I would personally break ties immediately. Jmo.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:42 AM
I'm telling my husband tonight after work. I have nothing to hide and it makes my skin crawl.


Quoting Anonymous:

I would stop all contact with him... You're tempting fate now if your husband catches wind of what he's done/doing he'll think you're willingly participating in this... Or why else stick around a married man who is THAT inappropriate with you.

littlemama912
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:46 AM
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Both other spouses knew you were running together and they were fine with it.  No issue there.  But, he's overstepped now and time to cease all contact with him.  Glad you're telling your husband.    

BUFFIE.the.BODY
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 12:28 PM
Why are you running around the question? Does your dh and your friend know about the picture and the weird things he's doing????????

And let's get something CLEAR lol I'm COMPLETELY secure with my husband sweetie. His friends are mine and mine are his BUT I don't go and he MOST DEFINITELY doesn't go the EXTRA mile and do things that I know & he knows that most likely will end up screwed. You know exactly what you were doing and if you're a attractive women then you should expect (not all the time) someone to cross the line or @ least think it.

I think you're sad bc you knew what you were doing when you were doing it.. smh


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes, both know all the contact. He will call me My husband is right there. We talk 3 ways even text me when I'm with his wife and she knows. I believe you women that are saying things like this have trust issues. I have had plenty of guy friends that nothing like this has ever happened. Running and talking to someone as friends is not anything bad he is the one that over stepped and I put a stopped to it. Some of you ladies show your true nature on here. Sad....




Quoting BUFFIE.the.BODY:

Lol apparently you do play those type of games... does your dh or your "friend" know about all the EXTRA contact you two have been keeping??





It's a difference between running in the morning "as buddies and facebooking AND TEXT messaging eachother.... o_0





Re-read VERYYYY SLOWLY everything you just typed and ask yourself these questions. Glad you aren't my friend bc I'd. ... nevermind -_-

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