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So I just started about a year ago reconnecting with an old friend from High School. Started working out together. She introduced me to her husband who got me on to BeachBody workouts like P90x, Insanity, Turbofire even started running in the early mornings with him. My friend doesn't run because she just hates it so I wake up early some mornings and will go running with her husband, who had become a very good friend/buddy. Well so I thought...I am a happily married woman and he would say he is a happily married man. But apparently he wants a little more from me than just my friendship. We have been buddies and running with each other since last July, well the other day we are facebooking, he is working offshore and that is the only way he communicates when gone. Well we are just talking while I am watching my son's basketball practice (my husband is the coach) he starts talking a little pervy. I mean making comments of how he is horny. Well I'm like you need to talk to your wife, then all of a sudden he sends me a picture of his junk with his hand on it, "saying I can't wait to get home and stick this so deep in you". Then right after that he message me sayin "omg don't look at that I am sorry it was meant to go to my wife, who I am talking to now on Facebook". I'm like ok obviously I can't avoid looking at it since it was right there. But he continues to laugh about it and talk to me about it.
I tell him to finish his business with his wife and I'll talk to him later. He tells me she just went to bed. This all happened that fast. In no way could you be in the middle of sexting then they go to bed that quick. I'm not stupid. So I just tell him I got to go. He has never once been inappropriate with me alone face to face, except for one time when he wanted to stretch me out I had to stop him..Was too weird.
Like I said his wife is a friend of mine and I don't play games and definitely wouldn't do that to a friend or the love of my life. She tells me how she trusts him blah blah, also talks about how she hasn't been giving it up to him.
Do y'all think this was a one time thing or what? He is just a different person on FB?

Sorry how this is written, doing this all from my IPhone.

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:45 AM
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JLo1486
by Gold Member on Apr. 30, 2013 at 12:43 AM
That's fine if you don't. But don't dog on us that do.

Quoting Anonymous:

No I have many friends but wont chill with their husbands and im a married woman theres no need for me to have male friends to even give that the slightestchance of happening. .

Also just because u dont feel attracted you cant say you know for sure theyre not attracted to you. So while u say I may jang around the wrong people which is an oxymoron statement considering my response to this post you may not know your friends as well as you think you do



I dont believe in friendship between the opposite sex for exact reasons as this post




Quoting JLo1486:

Well, you've been around the wrong people lol. I hang out with my friends and their husbands. Together and seperately. My husband can hang out with my friends as well if he wanted to. I don't see the big deal.





Quoting Anonymous:

I've never once heard that one person didn't try to put the moves on the other in these stories where unwed straight opposite sex go out it just doesn't happen furthermore they're married to different people wtf u wanna go out with other married men for








Quoting JLo1486:

Why not if all parties involved are ok with it?









Quoting Anonymous:

You don't go out with another woman's husband jogging or whatnot. What did u expect ?? He's a married man stay the fuck away












Quoting Anonymous:

Where did I over step? I never once gave him the impression that i want anything other than a friendship with him. My husband and his wife know we run, FB and talk on the phone. I truly believe a man and a woman can be friends without any sexual feeling toward one another. I just now after all these months think he has other intentions.














Quoting Anonymous:

You both slowly overstepped the bounds long ago.















And, fb is the devil. I would personally break ties immediately. Jmo.




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