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is it YOUR child?

Anonymous
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i saw this is another group and while this is completely off topic from what that is it got me to thinking.when you are making a decision do you take the opinion of the other parent?when you talk about the child is it "our" child or "MY" child.with my 6 year old i consult her father but ultimately its my decision because she lives with me 5 days a week.when we discuss her or i am talking to someone else she is "our child".my 3 month old its completely differant.I make ALL the decisions and dont even ask his father(my stbxh) and when i talk about him he is MY son.His father has seen him once so he has no say in anything that happens(i dont vax he wants me to i bf he says ds will be gay because i do)
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:00 AM
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LovelyMommy24
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:02 AM
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He says your son will be gay from bfing? Did I really just read that?

MamaJess9
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:03 AM
I am married to the father of both my children. They are OUR children and we make decisions together.
quickbooksworm
by Ruby Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:03 AM
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I refer to my son as mine.  My ex doesn't pay CS and sees him 2-3 times a year.  I am the one raising him, he is mine.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:04 AM

My husband and I are still together, so it is " our children' and even if we were divorce it still would be " our children". As for as making decisions, we talk to each other and decide together. Now when he is deployed or working and we can talk about it, I sometimes have to make the decision on my own.

MamaJess9
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:04 AM
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Lol right? How does that even make sense? Wouldn't it just make him a boob man if anything? Lmao

Quoting LovelyMommy24:

He says your son will be gay from bfing? Did I really just read that?

lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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I say MY child to dh when they do something well. When they are being difficult I say YOUR kids ! LOL 2 kids same dad stil married.

mommybug77
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:05 AM
I say your daughter and his next question is which one.. we have 4 girls.
auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:05 AM

They are OUR children.

Well except if they got in trouble, then I'd jokingly say YOUR child. 

Also..he has issues if he thinks breast feeding will "make your son gay".

xanayda
by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:06 AM

It's "our" or "my" child when they are good, "his" kid when they are mis behaving. lol. :)

LiliM
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:06 AM
They are our kids regardless of marital status.
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