My dh has a 25 year old daughter who is not a very stable woman. She hardly has anything to do with her dad. I have been with him for 5 years, married for 2 years and she has never called him on fathers day or his birthday. She changes her number all the time but we always manage to find it.. when he calls her she never answers or when she does she is rude. She has never accepted our invitations and she didn't even go to our wedding or want to be apart of it for that matter.
She moved out of her moms house when she was 16 and has been living like a 16 year old ever since. She doesn't want any authority figures in her life. She can't hold down a job. She has no car. We have no idea really where she lives or what she does for money
Well, my husband and I came into quite a large sum of money and word went around the family and eventually got back to his daughter. Now all of a sudden she is calling the house and her tone has changed. Now she cares and she misses us.
I see right through her but of course my husband doesn't see it. He is just happy she is calling and being nice. How do I let my husband know my concerns without it causing an issue between us?
I might be over thinking just a little bit, but I have a feeling that she is going to try to hit him up for some money and I don't want to give her any because I don't think she deserves anything. She has basically disowned her father and the only reason she is calling is because of the money we have come into it, that is how I feel. But I need to be sensitive to the fact that she still is my husbands daughter..