Today I've officially run out of reasons to stay married. We're about to hit our third wedding anniversary and I've had enough. I work when I can, but my husband tries to sabotage it. I go to school, and my husband tries to sabotage it. I want to actively TTC again (fertility issues and we're hitting the 3 yr mark with that too), my husband sabotages it and says he already has a child so too bad for me. I'm working towards my degree, and when I do find another job I'm going to be so stressed out about what my husband could possibly be doing at home that I won't be able to focus (again).
He spends money on moronic things, starts fights, the cops are here every other month because he won't leave me alone (no physical abuse, but his emotional instability pushes me to the edge). My husband almost had us evicted in January 2013 because he just wouldn't STOP his nonsense and was bothering the neighbors. I talked the manager who already had the papers written up into letting us stay. I also found out he's been calling party lines (over the phone chatrooms for single people to meet up/sex/date/etc.) while I'm at school.
I can't take this anymore. Once I have my degree I know he and I can no longer be together because he'll find a way to ruin it.
What should I do? I want to move out so bad, but he's the one with the income for now so I can't and it's making me feel trapped and depressed. I never want to be married again. My parents have said I can stay with them in the meantime.