So I found out I was pregnant a few months ago..I told my husband and he said it was ok by him...I sensed that he did'nt really want another baby ( we have two toddlers already).. So he kept getting upset and irritated by any little mistake I made. We had a serious fight and I left the house..thinking that if he spent some time away from me he'd stop acting that way...I came back home on Sunday only to find out that one of the single ladies that lives close by has been taking care of him and the kids while I was gone.. Although i'm home now, she still comes to clean and cook even when she knows i'm here..she just acts like I don't exist and she's getting awfully close to dh...I know I was stupid to abandon my family for a month but I did'nt know what else to do!!! We were always fighting and I got confused...I still love my husband..what can I do to get him back and to get the lady to stay away from my family?!!!..she's ruining my marriage...Should I get an abortion? Its this pregnancy that caused everything... EDIT**** Why is everyone acting like its all my fault?...I love my kids but I had to leave them...i'm a SAHM ...I don't have any money or Job..how was I supposed to take care of them?...Do you know what it feels like to have your husband say that you need to ask another woman (who does'nt have kids) for advice on r#aising your children?Or for him to tell you to stay out of your matrimonial room because looking at you make him feel like throwing up...or telling you that the only thing your good at is getting pregnant and eating?...i'm trying really hard to please him.. I put myself on a fruit diet and I eat once a day..I exercise 2 hours every day but he still calls me fat and stupid...what was I supposed to do?