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Just saw my dd's boyfriend buying....eta

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Magnum condoms. 0o

Now that's awkward.....

Just FYI my dd is 19 lol.

Eta: Holy cow! It's featured! That's pretty cool!

Eta2: I see a lot concerned if he actually needs magnum. She is on bc, she is not under my roof anymore so I can't keep her from having sex. They have been together going on 5 years. They are smart kids and I'm sure if that's what he is buying, then that's what he needs.

And no- he didn't see me. Lol.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 1, 2013 at 12:02 AM
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socal1990grl
by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:40 PM
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Just putting this out there. Your daughter is her own person. I was raised from a hardcore Christian family and my mom pushed me to wait till marriage to have sex and I lost my virginity at 18. Also I had a kid before I was married and she loves her grandson very much. It's not the 1970s anymore honey. It's 2013. Times are way different now.


Quoting Anonymous:

I understand that, I really do! I went through that in highschool myself, but I am so glad that what my parents taught me kept me from having sex with the guy I was "with". anyway, knowing that, I have more confidence that I can be one of the parents that is understanding of their kids but also firm on the fact that some things are best left for marriage. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I will just say good luck with that.... Trust me when I say the more you push her not to do something, the more she will probably want to.



Quoting Anonymous:

So I should just let her run wild then? Regardless, I have to believe that the way I am raising her is going to have some influence on her later in life. I see no reason to not believe that actually. And, like I said, if I saw her boyfriend buying condoms for them to use I would do whatever it took to make sure that wouldn't happen. I know I won't have complete control of her outside of the house, but I sure as heck am not going to be one of these parents that just stands by and lets their kid do whatever they want! No offense to OP, I live in a different world than you do! I don't expect 99% of you to understand where I am coming from anyway.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Well if it's not the guy you killed it'll just be another one. And it doesn't mater how you raise your dd she's still going to do what she wants in the end, trust me.





Quoting Anonymous:

I can assure you that with the way we are going to raise our Daughter, she wouldn't be interested in having sex until she is married anyways. and uhh if he is dead how would they be having sex anyways? Might want to rethink that one! 

Quoting GhettoKoolAide:

So cute. Have fun in jail and still knowing they're fucking. You should also kill your dd seeing as she's consenting.











Quoting Anonymous:

If my DD's boyfriend ever even thought about buying those and using them before they were married, my DH and I would both kill him. I appreciate the fact that they are being safe and she is out of your house so out of your control, but seriously? Guess we live in different worlds. SMH.









Lorelai_Nicole
by Lorelai on May. 1, 2013 at 2:43 PM
A lot of people double up on protection. Doesn't mean he's cheating. Jeez.

Quoting Anonymous:

If she is on birth control why does he need condoms? Is he cheating?
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kaylamom2004
by on May. 1, 2013 at 3:00 PM

She's an adult. At least they're being smart and using protection!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 1, 2013 at 3:04 PM

Lol...his dicks probably not that big. I had a guy tell me he only uses magnum xxl condoms...the fool could have easily fit into the regular size. Men and their penis'...

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 1, 2013 at 3:16 PM
Why wouldn't they still need condoms?

Quoting Anonymous:

If she is on birth control why does he need condoms? Is he cheating?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 1, 2013 at 3:34 PM
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How were you close enough to read the condom box without him seeing you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 1, 2013 at 3:51 PM

Worrying about the sex life of your adult daughter?

Mrs.Torres2566
by Mrs.T on May. 1, 2013 at 3:55 PM

That would be awkward...

csxt99
by Jennifer on May. 1, 2013 at 4:03 PM


I like how your mom handled this!  I say, "Great job!" on her part!

Quoting ncbirdie:

As a teenager, my mom and I were very open.  She had told me that if I even thought about becoming sexually active to come talk to her and she would get me on bc.  I came to her when I began to consider it, she followed through.  But she took it a step further and invited my bf over when I wasn't home.  She pulled out a dildo and a condom and told him to put it on.  She wanted to make sure he knew how to put it on properly.  She did leave the room, though, while he did it.  She stressed to both of us that it is protection, not permission.

Quoting csxt99:

I bought some for my daughter and had to figure out a tactful way to ask if he needd a special size.  After I bought them, I got on the phone with him and told him I bought some and expect them to use them (and yes, I gave the same lecture to my daughter) and then told him I bought the variety pack so they had fun ones to choose from.  I did this for my own twisted version of something funny.  He's not very open about sex, so I wanted to embarrass him.  About all the poor guy could do was say okay very slowly.  My daughter thought it was pretty funny.  She's twisted like me.  LOL




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 1, 2013 at 4:03 PM
The magnum box is pretty distinctive compared to lifestyles and Trojans lol. And I went over to look at which ones he got. Hava

Quoting Anonymous:

How were you close enough to read the condom box without him seeing you?

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