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bash me if you want, but i don't feel bad for...

Posted by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:07 AM
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Women who stay in abusive relationships knowing nothing is going to change. I understand that it can be tough especially if the man has isolated you from others, but there are always ways out. I don't understand the women who call the cops and then won't press any charges. That's not doing you any good for sure. Bash away but like it says I don't feel bad for you if you're willingly staying
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 1, 2013 at 2:08 AM
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Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on May. 1, 2013 at 2:08 AM

Same here. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 1, 2013 at 2:09 AM
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Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
lovevamp
by Bronze Member on May. 1, 2013 at 2:09 AM
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It the circle of life

Edit. What I mean by this is that when you are in a situation like that. Its difficult to have the courage to leave. They belittle you so much and make you believe that you can't find anyone better. They make it so you depend on them and can't do it on your own. It can take years if at all to have the balls to leave.
reaandiziesmama
by Platinum Member on May. 1, 2013 at 2:10 AM
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If you haven't been there then you just don't get it. Its not that easy. Its just not.

tysmommy98
by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:10 AM
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You sound like a real expert. *eyeroll*
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SkylarBeth
by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:11 AM
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Untill you walk a mile in someine elses shoes, dont be so quick to judge.
gemikris82
by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:11 AM

heartless.  i was abused for a year.  the first year was an awesome relationship.  his true colors didnt show til we moved in together.  it started slowly, he was jelouse, controlling then it just got worst and worst,  i wa so ashamed, and scared and embaressed to leave.

CadincesMom
by on May. 1, 2013 at 2:12 AM
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Let me guess you've never been in that situation right

ame85
by Chemistry cat on May. 1, 2013 at 2:13 AM
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You've never been completely defeated by an abusive spouse that tells you everyday how worthless you are. You get to thinking he is right in a twisted way. And many times, you consider the evil you know to be less evil than the unknown.

It takes a lot of courage to get out. And think about the women who are scared to leave, thinking they might die if they try.
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