She has a 9 year old daughter and 17 year old daughter who has a 2 month old. The 17 year old has moved in with her boyfriend but the 9 year old has had to pretty much take care of herself.
My question is would you leave a place you own with an incredibly low rent to help out your sister?
The reason I am skeptical about the situation is that we have four kids and I'm afraid that pulling my kids away from a stable environment to the unknown until we get our own house might be to much stress on them. What would you do?
Oh, and before you say don't go until I have my own house lined up we will both have to find different jobs. DHS has already been called twice on my sister so I'm afraid she will lose her daughter if I don't help her soon.
Any input would be appreciated.
Thank you all for your advice. I realize now that so many bad things can go wrong by moving in with her. I realize now that moving in would not help. I was thinking maybe i could help her turn her life around by stepping in but she isnt ready to change. She is refusing rehab and will not let me take her daughter so I will just wait until we have a house and jobs lined up before we go.