I have this friend who give her baby to her parents and she sees him as her brother now. I respect her decision and I don't bring it up.
But when she wants to go out and invites me sometimes I can't because cus either my baby is sick or I don't have a babysitter. I bothers me tho that she gets so upset and tells me to just forget about him and leave him to my parents. Like really? I respect your decision it would be fair if you would respect mine in keeping him. Sorry if I'm not always free.