Ok, I made friends with a lady at my daughter's school. She calls me every.fucking.day. She's an older lady and her son is 13 (my DD is 6).
Anyway, the week of the 19th we tentivly made plans for the 20th, we didn't discuss a time or what we were really going to do. Friday afternoon came and went and we talked but didn't discuss plans. So I went home from work and packed up and went out of town on Friday. She called me at 9pm and I was out to dinner with my sister so I let the call go to VM. By the time we got home it was 11pm so I was going to call the next day.
The next morning comes and I watched a movie wtih my DD and played on FB a little. I get into the shower and she calls me and the call went to VM. I get out and listen to it and she was pissed that I hadn't called back, telling me that she has other friends, she doesn't need me, etc, etc. I get on FB and she sent me pretty much the same message on FB I was pretty upset and didn't know what to tell her. She doesn't get to control my life.
I had to think about what to tell her so I waited until that night to send her a message on FB. I just said it was a misunderstanding and I still want to be friends, etc., etc.
Sunday she calls me while I am out spending time with DD. So I get another crappy FB message and she deleted me. I felt bad but also felt relieved.
Later in the week she corners my daughter and grills her. Why am I mad? Why won't I talk to her? She then adds me back to FB and apologizes. I tell her it's ok, we can try again.
In the meantime my crappy phone broke and wouldn't turn on and I told her that. At one point this week she got mad I don't send her messages on FB. Yesterday, phone turns on for a few hours and who calls? Her from a different phone number. DD and I were out so I told her I'd get back to her.
This is the message I find on FB today :
U TOLD ME THAT U R GONNA SEND ME MSSG,BUT U NEVER DID.U R SO RUDE,CAME TO OUR HOME AND I WAS SO HOSPITABLE AND HERE U GO,U R SO RUDE 2 ME.IF U DONT WANNA TALK ,THEN TELL ME ON MY FACE,DONT MAKE EXCUSES OK
I DONT EVEN CARE,OK
U KNOW WHT I SHOULD NOT BE THAT HUMBLE AND SWEET TO PEOPLE THAT PEOPLE CAN CHEW ME UP
I CAN BE BETTER LONELY THAN HAVING PEOPLE LIKE U
She also tried to convince me my husband was lying about his income. That her cousin is an engineer and makes 3X more than my husband. I told her no, I have seen his paystubs and my other dr friends told me that is how much drs make in India. She kept repeating that he was lying. My Indian friends told me she is lying about how much her cousin is making.
She offered to let me use her phone since mine is broke and I declined. I was going to have mine fixed or buy a new one. She got pissed that I refused the phone!
This is too much drama for me. I'm scared though because she works at DD's school. Should I say something to the office? I don't want her teaching my daughter. I don't want my kid grilled at school from her substitute teacher.
I sent her a message yesterday morning that said I didn't want to be friends with her, it was better we go our seperate ways and wished her well. She called my phone that night and left a 2 minute long message screaming profanities at me. I was upset and cried as she said some very hurtful things but hoped that by morning it would calm down. I dropped DD off at school and was supposed to hear from the principal about changing classrooms.
At around noon after my doctor had left for the day, she called my office, my coworker S answered, and crazy said she wanted to speak to the doctor and make a complaint about one of the nurses. Usually our patients confuse the other girls with being nurses and since I am the supervisor I told S that I would handle it. I gave my name and title and I heard "mmmmm" and click. I saw the number was from my daughter's school on the caller ID! So I asked S what the lady sounded like and S recognized her from my VM (my coworkers and I listened to it together).
At this point I got really pissed off and called the non emergency police number. They told me they would send an officer out as soon as they could. Then I went to my daughter's school and picked her up. Crazy was using class time to harass me from the school. I let the school know in detail what was happening. I told them my daughter wouldn't return unless she was in a different class.
When I got to my office with my DD the police officer was waiting for me. They took my statement and gave me a case number. I showed screen shots of crazy's comments on my FB and let him listen to the VM. I showed him where I told her not to talk to me anymore and told him now she's calling me at my job. He told me these people do tend to escelate and told me to get my kid out of her class.
I went home this afternoon and my coworker, A, calls to tell me crazy called up there again. She was screaming that she was going to make me pay and that she was going to call immigration. Then I get a call from her and I let it go to VM. Again, same message for me. She's going to call immigration, I'm Satan, Jesus is going to make me pay, blah blah blah. She also said she was going to send my picture to the New Delhi airport so I can be punished. I called the police to have the officer tell me if I need to get a RO or something against her. He was already off duty and the person who answered said he was going to note it into the report the officer is writing.
Her principal called at around 5 and I spoke to him. I told him I am just stunned that an adult is carrying on this way but I want my daughter safe. He agreed to move her to another classroom. I then find out 3 kids have already been moved out of my DD's class because of Crazy. He asked me to come in Monday morning before I go to work and let him listen to the VM and see the FB messages.
So that's where it is at right now. I am just in shock and I'm hoping that nothing else comes of it.