My oldest sister has three kids. Boy (20) , girl (17), and girl (14). She has always kept a very dirty house. Ran up electric and gas bills in each of their names so now she can't even get gas turned on in any of the five of their names (Her's, her husband's or any of the three children of hers).
The boy dropped out of high school and never graduated. The middle girl has now decided she no longer wants to finish high school and is bragging about being able to stay home in her pjs all the time and do nothing. The youngest is soon to follow in the others foot steps.
My Sister says there is nothing she can do to make them go to school. The boy still lives with her and has no desire to get a job. Sleeps all day and can't even hardly read.
I personally have nothing nice to say to her and resent the fact that she didn't raise m nieces and nephew better. The rest of my family blames the kids for not wanting to do better, but I can't help but stick up for them because I feel it is my sister's fault that they choose to not make better lives for themselves.
How can anyone allow themselves to raise children under such a bad example?! I don't go around them anymore, because I can never think of anything nice to say in her presence. I just want to tell her how big of a POS she really is!