a lil back story...so my dad and i didnt start actually speaking until i was about 19 years old. he chose to be absent, but i chose to try to get to know him once i got older. I am 26 now. but at 24, i got pregnant with ds, and he decided he was not going to speak to me anymore, because i was not yet married to my now dh. randomly about 6 months ago, i got a request from him on fb, and i accepted, so he could still see pics of my kiddos, but we still didnt talk much. now, all he will do is like my status, or comment on how great of a mother i am, and how i "definitely learned it from my dad" haha.... but anyway. i havent spoken to my dad, outside of fb since our falling out when i was 24 years old.
so today, he, out of the blue, texts dh's phone. he says "Hi, i need a family reference for my job. but IF they call you, you know NOTHING, other than the fact that i have lived in AZ since 2008." which, for one, is not true. he has lived literally all over the country since then. and two, this man hasn't spoken to me, and now wants me to cover up for him, when i dont even know what im covering up. (my dad has a pretty dirty past)
am i wrong for wanting nothing to do with this situation?