we owe my in laws 40 bucks. i told dh not to borrow from them because we are so broke that it will be hard to pay them back. i hate owing them money because i know they need it too. so i asked my mil if i could pay her back by taking her to the grocery store and getting her $40 in grocery. i feel like shit about it because i know it's wrong but i have to do what i have to do i guess.