So when we first got together my dh was into slow sex. Which is nice, but I like fast and hard. He had only had slow sex (?really? At 24). So I "taught" him. The problem is now he only does fast and hard (even when I'm on top). I love it, but I would like some of what he did before too. I want both, but it's like he can only do one or the other, how do I "fix" this?