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I broke my husband, help!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
So when we first got together my dh was into slow sex. Which is nice, but I like fast and hard. He had only had slow sex (?really? At 24). So I "taught" him. The problem is now he only does fast and hard (even when I'm on top). I love it, but I would like some of what he did before too. I want both, but it's like he can only do one or the other, how do I "fix" this?
Posted by Anonymous on May. 2, 2013 at 11:10 AM
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tarakay0417
by on May. 2, 2013 at 11:17 AM
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Tie him to the bed, gag him and do what you want. ;)
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 2, 2013 at 11:17 AM
I asked, and he said that he likes it hard better.


Quoting PinkHart:

This wierd concept called communication...try it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 2, 2013 at 11:17 AM
Hahaha I think he would be freaked out!


Quoting tarakay0417:

Tie him to the bed, gag him and do what you want. ;)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 2, 2013 at 11:19 AM
But I don't want to loose the fast, I just want him to add some slow. Dk if he can do both, he is very one way on a lot of things


Quoting LyTe684:

You taught him the first time. Do it again.

PinkHart
by on May. 2, 2013 at 11:19 AM
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Soo then what do you expect from us? We can't make him fuck you slowly lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

I asked, and he said that he likes it hard better.




Quoting PinkHart:

This wierd concept called communication...try it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 2, 2013 at 11:20 AM
Ideas?


Quoting PinkHart:

Soo then what do you expect from us? We can't make him fuck you slowly lol.



Quoting Anonymous:

I asked, and he said that he likes it hard better.






Quoting PinkHart:

This wierd concept called communication...try it.


LyTe684
by Emerald Member on May. 2, 2013 at 11:21 AM
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Tell him. Variety is always good. I think he can agree and appreciate that.

Quoting Anonymous:

But I don't want to loose the fast, I just want him to add some slow. Dk if he can do both, he is very one way on a lot of things




Quoting LyTe684:

You taught him the first time. Do it again.

notjstasocermom
by Emerald Member on May. 2, 2013 at 11:22 AM


well then don't go fast. LOL. take the lead

Quoting Anonymous:

I try, but when I'm on top he wants me to go fast. He will tell me to speed up, or start moving fast so I have to.


Quoting JDmommyJD:

 Tell him to let you lead... You can set the pace.




PinkHart
by on May. 2, 2013 at 11:22 AM
There really aren't any ideas we can give tbh. If the man doesn't wanna go slow, he's not gonna. If you can't talk to him, compromise and he respect your needs in bed...dunno what to tell you.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ideas?




Quoting PinkHart:

Soo then what do you expect from us? We can't make him fuck you slowly lol.





Quoting Anonymous:

I asked, and he said that he likes it hard better.








Quoting PinkHart:

This wierd concept called communication...try it.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 2, 2013 at 11:23 AM
Normally this can be corrected by just being a bit more dominant. If I take control and playfully push his hands down or tell him, "NO - let
me have what I want" he gets the point and stops and lets me do my thing. I've gone so far as to tell him, "just lay there and let me have you!"

Sometimes they get caught up in the moment and need you to remind them that you're there too, and want different things than they do :)


Quoting Anonymous:But I don't want to loose the fast, I just want him to add some slow. Dk if he can do both, he is very one way on a lot of things


Quoting LyTe684:You taught him the first time. Do it again.

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