Is she really psycho or do I just hate her because she is an ex???!!!
I think DHs ex wife is completely irrational and most other people do too, but today someone tells me I am overreacting.
When we had DHs girls for spring break their mother called 4 or 5 times a day driving me crazy. She asked so many questions and would then want to talk to the girls for about an hour at a time. They are 11 and 12 years old. One day they were here I decided to take a nap and she called while I was napping and freaked the hell out because I didn't answer the phone then. I had 7 voicemails of her screaming at me saying things like "Why are you trying to keep my own kids away from me you stupid bitch!". I never called her back, I just took my phone to the girls and told them they needed to call their mother and I walked away. She talked to them until the battery died on my phone then called DH and wanted to know why I forced them to hang up on her. WTF?! I had to leave my own home to calm down because I never allow anyone to talk to me like that. But if I say one wrong word to her she refuses to let DH see the girls for months at a time.
She uses the excuse of keeping the girls away from DH because we are "unstable". Ummm...wait, lady! We have been in the same location for 3 years. Both have had the same decent paying jobs for 3 years. YOU have moved 7 times in 3 years and can't keep a job for more than 2 months and your husband buys and resells used appliances for a living. Every pet you have had in the last 2 years has mysteriously died. You and your husband fight in front of the kids all the time and we never do.
I love those girls, I really do. But it is so hard dealing with their mother's insance fucking ways every time they come over! It got so bad over spring break that I almost considered getting a hotel room just for some peace and quiet, but I didn't want the girls to think anything was wrong.
I really think this woman is insane!