My mom through out the years has become someone I choose to not associate myself with
She tells my sons dad everything like its important, even if I am dating someone she will open her big mouth to him to start drama, even if I don't ever bring them around my kid
Well I am moved about 200 miles away and my sons dad is now just 20 miles away, so pretty close
My sons dad knows I live with my BF but he doesn't want to meet him or know who it is, okay cool, no problem. Same rule doesn't apply for the opposite and he knows that so as long as we are clear that I still meet his GF being around my son, idk if he knows my man or not. Me and BF have been together for a year, known eachother nearly a decade and he has known my son since his birth.
My mom ends up telling him who it is, now here's where she is pulling the religion card
I told her I am done with her opening her mouth to cause drama, told her Im not visiting her anymore, for my sisters birthday, I moved for a reason and I was just reminded of that reason
She says...."You have to forgive me, I have done nothing wrong."
I asked her why I would have to forgive her
she said because it'd be a sin not to.
I almost hung up on her
I am not even Christian. I am buddhist, I don't have to forgive anyone, I am just going to not do anything to you I wouldn't expect to be done to me, and for that, I will see you when I see you and hung up the phone
Am I wrong? I seriously have been gone 4 months, you think shed at least keep the peace so she can see her grandson. Screw those plans