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She is playing the religion card...Mom

Anonymous
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My mom through out the years has become someone I choose to not associate myself with

She tells my sons dad everything like its important, even if I am dating someone she will open her big mouth to him to start drama, even if I don't ever bring them around my kid

Well I am moved about 200 miles away and my sons dad is now just 20 miles away, so pretty close

My sons dad knows I live with my BF but he doesn't want to meet him or know who it is, okay cool, no problem.  Same rule doesn't apply for the opposite and he knows that so as long as we are clear that I still meet his GF being around my son, idk if he knows my man or not.  Me and BF have been together for a year, known eachother nearly a decade and he has known my son since his birth.

My mom ends up telling him who it is, now here's where she is pulling the religion card

I told her I am done with her opening her mouth to cause drama, told her Im not visiting her anymore, for my sisters birthday, I moved for a reason and I was just reminded of that reason

She says...."You have to forgive me, I have done nothing wrong."

I asked her why I would have to forgive her

she said because it'd be a sin not to.

hahha

I almost hung up on her

I am not even Christian.  I am buddhist, I don't have to forgive anyone, I am just going to not do anything to you I wouldn't expect to be done to me, and for that, I will see you when I see you and hung up the phone

Ugh

Am I wrong?  I seriously have been gone 4 months, you think shed at least keep the peace so she can see her grandson.  Screw those plans

Posted by Anonymous on May. 3, 2013 at 6:50 AM
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SequesteredLeo
by on May. 3, 2013 at 6:53 AM
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Some of our mothers are toxic nutcases. I would just keep my distance and enjoy the peace.

jbirdsladie27
by on May. 3, 2013 at 6:56 AM
Mom told your ex who the new bf is and you're upset? I don't see the big deal.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 3, 2013 at 6:58 AM

My ex didn't want to know because he knows that he himself is a fucking psycho

He is an abusive jealous lunatic, good dad, but possessive of me

It was to keep the peace to follow his wishes and not tell him

plus its bad because its the guy I basically left him for at one time a few years ago

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Mom told your ex who the new bf is and you're upset? I don't see the big deal.


jbirdsladie27
by on May. 3, 2013 at 7:03 AM
Sounds like your ex will just have to put his big boy boxers on and fucking deal with it.

Oh and if I was you, I'd tell mom to take her religion BS and shove it


Quoting Anonymous:

My ex didn't want to know because he knows that he himself is a fucking psycho

He is an abusive jealous lunatic, good dad, but possessive of me

It was to keep the peace to follow his wishes and not tell him

plus its bad because its the guy I basically left him for at one time a few years ago

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Mom told your ex who the new bf is and you're upset? I don't see the big deal.


aandt1999
by Platinum Member on May. 3, 2013 at 7:03 AM

I am pretty sure Buddhists believe in forgiveness too.....

aandt1999
by Platinum Member on May. 3, 2013 at 7:05 AM


Buddhism is a religion.

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Sounds like your ex will just have to put his big boy boxers on and fucking deal with it.

Oh and if I was you, I'd tell mom to take her religion BS and shove it


Quoting Anonymous:

My ex didn't want to know because he knows that he himself is a fucking psycho

He is an abusive jealous lunatic, good dad, but possessive of me

It was to keep the peace to follow his wishes and not tell him

plus its bad because its the guy I basically left him for at one time a few years ago

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Mom told your ex who the new bf is and you're upset? I don't see the big deal.




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 3, 2013 at 7:08 AM
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Its different

I don't have to nor am I obligated to for any divine purpose.

Quoting aandt1999:

I am pretty sure Buddhists believe in forgiveness too.....


jbirdsladie27
by on May. 3, 2013 at 7:12 AM
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Ya don't say!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting aandt1999:


Buddhism is a religion.


Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Sounds like your ex will just have to put his big boy boxers on and fucking deal with it.



Oh and if I was you, I'd tell mom to take her religion BS and shove it




Quoting Anonymous:

My ex didn't want to know because he knows that he himself is a fucking psycho

He is an abusive jealous lunatic, good dad, but possessive of me

It was to keep the peace to follow his wishes and not tell him

plus its bad because its the guy I basically left him for at one time a few years ago

Quoting jbirdsladie27:

Mom told your ex who the new bf is and you're upset? I don't see the big deal.





Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 3, 2013 at 7:15 AM

I think your ex needs to get over it. And you just need to stop telling your mom anything about your personal life. She can be on a need to know basis...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 3, 2013 at 7:19 AM

Thats appropriate

need to know basis only

and yeah I have yet to give my son back to my ex, he takes him tomorrow, so we will see the impact.  Hope this looney toon stays in control.  Probably going to try something like, not show up or be hella late just to annoy me. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I think your ex needs to get over it. And you just need to stop telling your mom anything about your personal life. She can be on a need to know basis...


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