my dad is sick and I can't convince him to go to the ER UPDATE
He complains of anal bleeding. He says it non stop bleeding. He says the toilet fills up with blood. It makes him weak and dizzy. He is unable to control his BMs :/ some days I can tell its really bad. Today he has started vomiting non stop. He also says it feels like he has the worst case of indigestion he has ever had. He also said he is burping up a lot of acid stuff.
I told him I would take him to the ER. He said no, he can't pay for it. I tried to explain to him that it doesn't matter! They will see him no matter what.
What could be wrong with him!
The reason I was on CM, is b/c he wS sleeping and tryimg to rest. Anyways, I went in to check on him. He is now complaining of an extreme headache and being dizzy. He says he feels like he has been doing drugs for days. Lol he doesn't do drugs. Then he said his arm and shoulder were hurting. That's when I flipped. I told him he had no choice. I was taking him in. He said he would go after he ate and layed back down if he didn't get any better. I cooked him some breakfast and he is resting. I'm keeping a close eye on him. Thank you for the kind words. If he isn't doing better I will take him. He swears it feels like a flu coming on and that its not life threating. Idk. . . He has about an hour if he doesn't get well. He promised me he would go.
After he woke up from his nap, he claimed he felt much better. I kind of thought he was lying, but he went to work like he was. He appears to be doing fine. I'm not going to force him to do anything. He has been through cancer before, and he refuses to go through treatment again. He did promise me if he ever felt it was completly necessary he would go to the ER.