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Banquet time!! ETA update and more pics

Time for my husbands honor guard banquet!

I posted last night and everyone was hating on my dress saying it was so slutty. Well I got complimented by officers wives as soon as I walked in the building. And they said they loved my shoes and wanted to know where I got them! Lol (I made them )

I did add something under my dress just to make it a little longer so now it comes to my knees since so many of you thought I would be an embarrassment to my husband if I wore it how it was.

Anyways, I've seen everything so far from floor length to mid thigh dresses. I think I got a great classy and sexy look with mine. Most dresses are about knee length or a little shorter.


And what do y'all think of my hair?? I wanted to do a full updo but my dh loves my long curls so I compromised!! Lol more pics to come.



More pics from the night!


My hubby won the quarterly award!


He got a medal, a coin, a inscribed glass and 2 plaques! Soooo proud of him!





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It's so funny that I got nothing but compliments all night. As soon as I walked in, 2 officer's wives told me how nice I looked and wanted to know where I got my shoes. Lol. Later, the GENERAL's wife came over and introduced her self to me JUST to tell me she loved my dress. My husband had several people compliment him on me and I had tons of other people tell me nothing but positive comments. I was told I looked "stunning" as well as "eloquent" in conversation. It just goes to show there are a bunch of hateful women here on cm who try to bring me down every chance they get. This proved that so much.

Again, this was NOT a formal event, it even specified on the invitation "no long gowns". So all you saying how terribly innapropriate I looked we're WRONG.

Trust me, there was a couple women who were dressed skanky and everyone was looking at them in a bad way and I was dressed NOTHING like them. One chick had on a tube dress that barely covered her ass and showed her cleavage including her trashy chest tattoo and tattoos on her back and arms.

I was the picture of class and behaved exactly as I should. I stood by my husband's side as he was given award after award. I couldn't be more proud and neither could he.

He won the quarterly award btw and his commander told him he hopes to see him win the year.
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by on May. 3, 2013 at 8:17 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 11:19 AM

Because her husband is really her pimp.

Quoting loisl25:

Ohhhhh... I AM confused about why her dh is friends with her ex, who threatens her, rapes her and beats up her friends, but whatever, I don't know her and I don't think reading three posts is going to make me a 504 expert, so I try not to judge.


Quoting lovevamp:

Lol. I feel the same way. But her post turn into who can bash her the worst.



Quoting loisl25:

Why on your posts do people get so excited about being on the first page? Nobody ever goes, ''First page!!! Yaaaay!" On my posts...


OompaLover6969
by on May. 4, 2013 at 11:19 AM
I missed the dress pic post before. Your hair & make up look stunning, but I see some side boob in that dress, girl. O.o Otherwise, I think you look pretty (can't lie about that). Haha!

Congrats to Mike. I won't pretend to know every intimate detail of your marriage, but (from what you post) is he aware that those medals are all he will have in the future to show for the lack of time he spends with his family? :/

Not being mean, really. Congrats to him. I just hope he knows all that he has sacrificed, just to be the proud displayer of those awards.......

If you want shit to change for your marriage, than (if I were you) I'd sit down w/ Mike, throw those medals in his lap, & say: "Were they worth it?". Seriously.

I have a very strong feeling that YOUR constant need to be on CM & get attention is because of the lack of attention you get from him. Just because he "forgives" & ignores your infidelities, doesn't make him some prince charmimg. :/ Let's be honest, if he were @ home being a PRESENT husband, you wouldn't have the TIME to get away w/ the stuff you've done. Right?

I mean, it's NOT his fault. (Don't go blaming him now)..... I just can't help, but notice how often he's gone for volunteer work. Maybe you & him can find ways to make his "family time" more fun for him? Like: spend more time telling him how much you value & enjoy him. Make him feel JUST AS NEEDED @ home as he does serving. Kwim?

Idk? Just rambling....

Anyways, hope ya'll had fun & congrats to Mike.
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mybabybugssmile
by on May. 4, 2013 at 11:32 AM
Ohhhhhh handmade.... I.......seee........

Quoting Anonymous:

Did you notice the white in front? She said she made them.




Quoting mybabybugssmile:

What the shit is up with those shoes.... They honestly look different sizes cuz the one looks bigger than the other. Slap some unevenly torn cheap lace on there and viola! Crap. Hope you get your money back for those.





Quoting blessed107:

I'm really not trying to be funny. But is wrong with the shoes? The lace on one shoe seems higher up than the other one. It shows a better fit, they look like they're uneven. Congratulations to your hubby! I think if this post was truly about your husband, these shoes or your dress should have never been included.

Quoting 504bbymami:



loisl25
by Gold Member on May. 4, 2013 at 11:41 AM
What...?? Seriously?


Quoting Anonymous:

Because her husband is really her pimp.

Quoting loisl25:

Ohhhhh... I AM confused about why her dh is friends with her ex, who threatens her, rapes her and beats up her friends, but whatever, I don't know her and I don't think reading three posts is going to make me a 504 expert, so I try not to judge.





Quoting lovevamp:

Lol. I feel the same way. But her post turn into who can bash her the worst.





Quoting loisl25:

Why on your posts do people get so excited about being on the first page? Nobody ever goes, ''First page!!! Yaaaay!" On my posts...




Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 11:48 AM

Huh? Isn't SHE the one that refused to live with him for months at a time because she "didn't like the area?" 

Mike is just providing for his family. He would be able to spend time with them if only it were important to Jenna.


Quoting OompaLover6969:

I missed the dress pic post before. Your hair & make up look stunning, but I see some side boob in that dress, girl. O.o Otherwise, I think you look pretty (can't lie about that). Haha!

Congrats to Mike. I won't pretend to know every intimate detail of your marriage, but (from what you post) is he aware that those medals are all he will have in the future to show for the lack of time he spends with his family? :/

Not being mean, really. Congrats to him. I just hope he knows all that he has sacrificed, just to be the proud displayer of those awards.......

If you want shit to change for your marriage, than (if I were you) I'd sit down w/ Mike, throw those medals in his lap, & say: "Were they worth it?". Seriously.

I have a very strong feeling that YOUR constant need to be on CM & get attention is because of the lack of attention you get from him. Just because he "forgives" & ignores your infidelities, doesn't make him some prince charmimg. :/ Let's be honest, if he were @ home being a PRESENT husband, you wouldn't have the TIME to get away w/ the stuff you've done. Right?

I mean, it's NOT his fault. (Don't go blaming him now)..... I just can't help, but notice how often he's gone for volunteer work. Maybe you & him can find ways to make his "family time" more fun for him? Like: spend more time telling him how much you value & enjoy him. Make him feel JUST AS NEEDED @ home as he does serving. Kwim?

Idk? Just rambling....

Anyways, hope ya'll had fun & congrats to Mike.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 11:51 AM
How are you out and about after having surgery on your back not too long ago?
OompaLover6969
by on May. 4, 2013 at 11:53 AM
I guess I missed that memo? :/

I just feel like there's something BIG missing here...... IDK?

I've seen many men receive tons of awards, raises, promotions, ETC.... But, all at the expense of their wife & children. :/ Most recently, it was a PASTOR @ a church that I know.

Part of me wonders if he doesn't WANT to be home, because the way he is treated, makes him feel invaluable. At least in the service, he can feel important & needed. Kwim?

I'm not trying to be offensive. Just trying to understand..... Of course, we only know what we are told in this scenario, which only allows speculation.

I should stop speculating. LOL!


Quoting Anonymous:

Huh? Isn't SHE the one that refused to live with him for months at a time because she "didn't like the area?" 

Mike is just providing for his family. He would be able to spend time with them if only it were important to Jenna.



Quoting OompaLover6969:

I missed the dress pic post before. Your hair & make up look stunning, but I see some side boob in that dress, girl. O.o Otherwise, I think you look pretty (can't lie about that). Haha!



Congrats to Mike. I won't pretend to know every intimate detail of your marriage, but (from what you post) is he aware that those medals are all he will have in the future to show for the lack of time he spends with his family? :/



Not being mean, really. Congrats to him. I just hope he knows all that he has sacrificed, just to be the proud displayer of those awards.......



If you want shit to change for your marriage, than (if I were you) I'd sit down w/ Mike, throw those medals in his lap, & say: "Were they worth it?". Seriously.



I have a very strong feeling that YOUR constant need to be on CM & get attention is because of the lack of attention you get from him. Just because he "forgives" & ignores your infidelities, doesn't make him some prince charmimg. :/ Let's be honest, if he were @ home being a PRESENT husband, you wouldn't have the TIME to get away w/ the stuff you've done. Right?



I mean, it's NOT his fault. (Don't go blaming him now)..... I just can't help, but notice how often he's gone for volunteer work. Maybe you & him can find ways to make his "family time" more fun for him? Like: spend more time telling him how much you value & enjoy him. Make him feel JUST AS NEEDED @ home as he does serving. Kwim?



Idk? Just rambling....



Anyways, hope ya'll had fun & congrats to Mike.





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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 11:54 AM
Can you honestly blame him? If I were him I would need something else too. Something fulfilling, worthwhile, time consuming, distracting, etc. The truth is she's a terrible wife, but he chooses not to leave her. I can totally see why he needs to fill his life with meaningful things when he's got her as a wife.

Quoting OompaLover6969:

I missed the dress pic post before. Your hair & make up look stunning, but I see some side boob in that dress, girl. O.o Otherwise, I think you look pretty (can't lie about that). Haha!

Congrats to Mike. I won't pretend to know every intimate detail of your marriage, but (from what you post) is he aware that those medals are all he will have in the future to show for the lack of time he spends with his family? :/

Not being mean, really. Congrats to him. I just hope he knows all that he has sacrificed, just to be the proud displayer of those awards.......

If you want shit to change for your marriage, than (if I were you) I'd sit down w/ Mike, throw those medals in his lap, & say: "Were they worth it?". Seriously.

I have a very strong feeling that YOUR constant need to be on CM & get attention is because of the lack of attention you get from him. Just because he "forgives" & ignores your infidelities, doesn't make him some prince charmimg. :/ Let's be honest, if he were @ home being a PRESENT husband, you wouldn't have the TIME to get away w/ the stuff you've done. Right?

I mean, it's NOT his fault. (Don't go blaming him now)..... I just can't help, but notice how often he's gone for volunteer work. Maybe you & him can find ways to make his "family time" more fun for him? Like: spend more time telling him how much you value & enjoy him. Make him feel JUST AS NEEDED @ home as he does serving. Kwim?

Idk? Just rambling....

Anyways, hope ya'll had fun & congrats to Mike.

OrangeBalloon
by Platinum Member on May. 4, 2013 at 11:54 AM

Um. I said that I TRIED. I'm not perfect. I wasn't bragging. 

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

Awwww, does the truth hurt? We aren't jealous. We all laugh at you and make fun of you.

Even when you were in the private group that you thought you had friends in, we were all making fun of you behind your back because you are so self absorbed and stupid




you brag about being nice to someone as you are making fun of them ? the very definition of how I hope my children never turn out.As bumpy as 504 life may be your behavior is lower.


OompaLover6969
by on May. 4, 2013 at 11:59 AM
IDK? I think there's more to it.....

But, what do I know? LOL!

I should have just stayed out of this post. -_- eek! LOL!


Quoting Anonymous:

Can you honestly blame him? If I were him I would need something else too. Something fulfilling, worthwhile, time consuming, distracting, etc. The truth is she's a terrible wife, but he chooses not to leave her. I can totally see why he needs to fill his life with meaningful things when he's got her as a wife.



Quoting OompaLover6969:

I missed the dress pic post before. Your hair & make up look stunning, but I see some side boob in that dress, girl. O.o Otherwise, I think you look pretty (can't lie about that). Haha!



Congrats to Mike. I won't pretend to know every intimate detail of your marriage, but (from what you post) is he aware that those medals are all he will have in the future to show for the lack of time he spends with his family? :/



Not being mean, really. Congrats to him. I just hope he knows all that he has sacrificed, just to be the proud displayer of those awards.......



If you want shit to change for your marriage, than (if I were you) I'd sit down w/ Mike, throw those medals in his lap, & say: "Were they worth it?". Seriously.



I have a very strong feeling that YOUR constant need to be on CM & get attention is because of the lack of attention you get from him. Just because he "forgives" & ignores your infidelities, doesn't make him some prince charmimg. :/ Let's be honest, if he were @ home being a PRESENT husband, you wouldn't have the TIME to get away w/ the stuff you've done. Right?



I mean, it's NOT his fault. (Don't go blaming him now)..... I just can't help, but notice how often he's gone for volunteer work. Maybe you & him can find ways to make his "family time" more fun for him? Like: spend more time telling him how much you value & enjoy him. Make him feel JUST AS NEEDED @ home as he does serving. Kwim?



Idk? Just rambling....



Anyways, hope ya'll had fun & congrats to Mike.


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