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Settle this debate between me and dh...............

Anonymous
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Okay so we were talking about people that have porn addictions. I said that porn really isn't okay in my opinion and it's pretty much the same as going out and cheating on your wife when you look at porn behind her back..So do you ladies agree? Is looking at porn ALL the time behind the womans back just as bad as going out and cheating?!

Opinions?

The way I look at it is, betrayal is betrayal, period..no matter which way you try to cut the cake.

Some of you are saying it's not the same thing as cheating..but yet he's STILL looking at another woman "getting off by her and her body"...wouldn't it be the same thing if I met up with a guy and got off by watching him do something? It's pretty much the same thing.. It's disrespect..period 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 3, 2013 at 9:45 PM
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mrschairez3
by on May. 3, 2013 at 9:45 PM
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Agree no porn!!!
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:45 PM
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 I disagree completely.

I have no issue with porn.

 

 


   

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 3, 2013 at 9:46 PM

So your okay with your husband looking at porn behind your back? 

Quoting KristenFowles:

 I disagree completely.

I have no issue with porn.

 


ssocalgirl6
by on May. 3, 2013 at 9:46 PM
I don't find them to be the same. Bit porn does not have a place in our marriage either.
Suzy_Sunshine
by Gold Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:46 PM
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It is creepy and sad if he lets porn become an issue in his marriage but no, those two things are not equivalent. Not even close.

cbk_mom3
by JayTayGma on May. 3, 2013 at 9:47 PM

Yes, I agree with you OP, 100%.

Mama110981
by Silver Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:47 PM
Its not the same as cheating but some woman are not happy with their man looking at other woman. I mean in all honesty my man doesnt want me looking at other men it goes both ways
LadyGrey2514
by on May. 3, 2013 at 9:47 PM
I wouldn't equate it with cheating exactly. But looking at it ALL the time as you said would be a major problem for me. Especially if he was hiding it.
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alexsmomaubrys2
by Emerald Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:47 PM
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Porn isn't bad and it isn't the problem. Lying and being sneaky is the problem because it leads to trust issues and a relationship can't survive with trust issues.

casah4
by Platinum Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:48 PM
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 I don't care if my husband looks at porn.

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