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Arggghhh I really don't want to talk to you

Posted by on May. 4, 2013 at 1:14 PM
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I didn't meet my biodad until I was 14. We saw each other maybe 2 times after that. I didn't have any contact with him until last year. We reconnected on Facebook, but he seems to think there is more to our relationship than there really is. I don't know him. I don't know any of the other members of his side of the family. I'm supposed to be familiar with a whole family of half sisters and aunts. 

Now he wants to talk on the phone. I am not comfortable with this. We have exchanged numbers, I just don't like talking on the phone, to anyone. How do I tell him this without saying, sorry but you're a total stranger to me?

by on May. 4, 2013 at 1:14 PM
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jadedcynic
by Nerdalicious on May. 4, 2013 at 1:20 PM

Aaah, now he's calling me.

NikLvsNick
by Silver Member on May. 4, 2013 at 1:30 PM

I honestly don't know any other way to say it besides being honest. I had to say the same thing to my mom's sister. I haven't seen her since I was 5. She contacted me on FB and I had to be brutally honest and tell her that I don't know who she is and I refuse to call her aunt. it is what it is.

Jessie3398
by Bronze Member on May. 4, 2013 at 1:37 PM
Just tell him...it's not like he was there for you and you're ditching him.
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