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The Guilt Is Killing Me

Anonymous
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I cheated on my husband.
It started out with a male co-worker flirting with me. He would make a point to come into my office if he knew I was in charge and so on.
Then he kissed me. Well one night when I was on call and alone he came back into work. We made out and then went down on me on my desk.
That was four months ago. I've since quit that job and I stay home now.
I feel so damn guilty.
Would you tell your husband? It will devastate him. He will most likely divorce me.
We have a 2 year old.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 8:29 PM
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EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:31 PM
Would you want him to come clean if he got head at work?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 8:31 PM
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Honestly. No. Telling him only benefits you and your guilt. Maybe my answer isn't the right answer but what would it solve?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 8:32 PM
Somethings are better left unsaid.
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by Platinum Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:32 PM

no i honestly couldn't tell. the stakes are too high. which is why i never do what you did! jfc, stay away from flirty men and never let them go down on you.

Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:32 PM
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Ask yourself do you want to tell him to ease your guilt or because you truly think he needs to know? If it will devastate him and you will never cross that line again I would take that secret to the grave.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 4, 2013 at 8:33 PM
Honestly? No.

Quoting EmilysMom2010:

Would you want him to come clean if he got head at work?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 4, 2013 at 8:33 PM
What will it fix? No I wouldn't tell him. Maybe do something super nice for him to help you with your guilt.
snowiscold
by Silver Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:33 PM

You need to get to the root of why you cheated on your husband.  I would not tell him until you get counseling.  I feel really bad for you because I know of the guilt which you are talking.

LuvnMyCrew3
by Bronze Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:34 PM
Listen to the song Hypotheically by Lyfe Jennings
Cutenessmom
by Gold Member on May. 4, 2013 at 8:34 PM

LOL  you puleed a Bill Cinton lol  no ifi was you go get tested for STDS and never say a freakin word and   never ever do that again.

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