B is married lives closer is married has 1 kid and while her husband can be an ass he's not too bad.
A and B are twins.
C Is married with 2 kids her husband is a pot head. Both A and Cs husbands are on disability.
Last night we were at B's house just visiting A's husband started drinking and and at first he was fine telling us he hasn't drank in a month and all kinds of bull shit then my MIL and FIL went home and we all went inside to play a card game C and her husband got through a round and left.
Right after they left A's husband started just going crazy first he wanted a 4 wheeler like the one up the street that he road on. He kept claiming that his garaged burned down so he can get is B kept telling him to shut up and they would talk about it when he was sober.
Then once it was obvious he wasn't getting the 4 wheeler he started in on C's husband owing him $9 cuz the last time they came to visit he gave the guy $9 to run to the store and get some vodka C's husband came back and said he forgot the vodka and accidently spent the money but would give it to him the next time he saw them.
So Bs husband just went on and on about how he mentioned the money 3 times tonight and Cs husband never gave it to him. ( I knew he had it because I saw him give C $100 to go to the store but I wasnt going to say anything to As husband about it though) As husband wanted A to drive him to Cs house or call C up so he could see what the 2 of them. (Yes I realize its family and its $9 but Ive grown up with people like my BIL all my life so I know they will go crazy over $1.) The whole time A is telling him to shut up and that seeing as how its 11pm they are in bed and can talk about it in the am. She said some pretty mean things to him during this convo like I wish you would just die and I know she ment it. I couldn't stand it anymore and my youngest was crying so I told dh it was time to go. We left.
We were in the car talking about it. Dh said he knows his BIL is messed up but he just couldn't believe how A was treating him. I told him that I've kind of been were A is with my ex in that spot where I know Im sooo hurt but I couldn't fully get away. So yes when my ex said he thought about killing himself I thought I wish you would and he understood.
I fell asleep after the convo. Right as we get into town dh gets a phone call from Bs husband saying B kicked A and her family out because As husband found his phone and called C up (it was 1am) and started going off on C about the $9 and just acting like a nutt case. B told her sister A it was time for them to go and it was either her husband or her family at this point because its not a good place for anyone. A told her husband that he couldn't disrepect her family anymore but still chose him over the family and they went home.
It was crazy and ill be soooo happy if I never see that dumbass again.
Earlier this past yr when my BIL held a gun to As head she was going to leave him but went back sd was visiting her moms and would in the past often go see As kids but I told dh that I thought it was best if he told bm what went down and that bm had to be there if sd wanted to visit As family she agreed and one of the big things As husband and her kept asking sd was why she didn't go down to their house while visiting her mom. SD said her mom keeps forgetting and I chimed in and said she hasn't been there very often this past year which is true but not the reason.
I just don't trust that man and I think my dh's ex and I agree that that's not something that sd should be around.
Its sad and I have thought about calling CPS on As husband but I really don't want it to come back to me and I don't want A to loose her kids too because her husband is an abusive dumbass.
I'm not sure what question I'm asking I just had to get all of this out.