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Women who AREN'T ok with porn...... ETA

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Why not?
Since many moms are ok with it, why aren't you? :)

*I have no problems with you not liking porn, as long as its agreed upon between you and your partner :)
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:25 PM
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my4kids274
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:32 PM

Inappropriate and there is no place for porn in our marriage.  My dh and I both feel this way. 

.Milfshake.
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:33 PM

Quoting Pink.Sunshine.:

it's disgusting that's why


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2013 at 4:34 PM
Because I've gained weight and feel insecure, like he thinks those women are better looking and would rather have them.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2013 at 4:36 PM
I don't think its for the woman either... Its the act.


Quoting So_Devious20:

Well hopefully they aren't rubbing off for the man..




Quoting Anonymous:

Because they feel like their spouse is lusting after the woman and comparing her to porn stars. Which is ridiculous in my opinion, do they lust after the man too?


firespurity
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:40 PM
it's mysterious how everyone claiming to be insecure/fat is anon, probably all the same anon.

Quoting Anonymous:

Because I've gained weight and feel insecure, like he thinks those women are better looking and would rather have them.
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by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:41 PM
Pretty much this.

Quoting meganliz11:

Well for 1, It's nasty, 2, it's innapropriate, 3, he doesn't need to watch some nasty whore, he has something better. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2013 at 4:41 PM
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Because they're insecure and feel the need to maintain a level of control over another human being. 

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by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:42 PM
I'll admit that's another reason as well... Not anon.

Quoting firespurity:

it's mysterious how everyone claiming to be insecure/fat is anon, probably all the same anon.



Quoting Anonymous:

Because I've gained weight and feel insecure, like he thinks those women are better looking and would rather have them.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2013 at 4:42 PM
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I find it inappropriate for married people to lust after others that way.  When a man pleasures himself to porn, it is because he is imagining being the man he sees doing the actions he sees to the woman he sees.  I don't think that he should be wishing to engage in sex acts with other women.  It is also proven to be detrimental to the marital relationship most of the time.  

My husband didn't really see this my way until his porn use damaged our marriage- our respect for each other, his libido, my trust.  He really has come around to my way of thinking after seeing how it can affect us.  I'm not saying that this is the case for everyone, but it is for us.  The only healthy way for us to use porn is not at all.  Once we discussed it, we agreed that it needed to change.  Since it did, our marriage is much better.

There is no one size fits all answer to this issue.

Tooth_Inspector
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:42 PM
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Because my ex was addicted and wanted it more than me. I also find it wrong, lusting after another person outside of your spouse to fill your sexual needs.
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