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Women who AREN'T ok with porn...... ETA

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Why not?
Since many moms are ok with it, why aren't you? :)

*I have no problems with you not liking porn, as long as its agreed upon between you and your partner :)
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:25 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on May. 5, 2013 at 4:54 PM

Because porn always becomes a problem.

Men end up hiding it behind their wives backs and then it becomes a huge problem and causes problems in marriages...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on May. 5, 2013 at 4:54 PM
Lol I agree.

Quoting Anonymous:

Because they can't stand the fact that it's natural and healthy to be attracted to other humans.
micheledo
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:55 PM
Because my husband and I have both chosen t otry and live our life by the Bible. Christ says lust in our heart is the same as adultery. So neither of us are 'ok' with porn. Be it visually or through books.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on May. 5, 2013 at 4:55 PM
Don't they hide it because their wives try to ban it?

Quoting Anonymous:

Because porn always becomes a problem.

Men end up hiding it behind their wives backs and then it becomes a huge problem and causes problems in marriages...

firespurity
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2013 at 4:55 PM
Honestly this is why I feel polygamy should be legal.

Quoting Anonymous:

Because they can't stand the fact that it's natural and healthy to be attracted to other humans.
FL2AK
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:57 PM
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We don't need to look at other people naked or having sex in order to have an amazing sex life. We do just fine with just the two of us. My husband feels the same way.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on May. 5, 2013 at 4:57 PM

I think it's really cute that you believe that.


Quoting sugarcrisp:

I watch porn and all I can imagine is myself being that woman and that man being my DF.

He's told me the same, although apparently he just prefers the pics I've sent him over porn. Pics don't do it for me; I need to watch something.


Quoting Anonymous:

I find it inappropriate for married people to lust after others that way.  When a man pleasures himself to porn, it is because he is imagining being the man he sees doing the actions he sees to the woman he sees.  I don't think that he should be wishing to engage in sex acts with other women.  It is also proven to be detrimental to the marital relationship most of the time.  

My husband didn't really see this my way until his porn use damaged our marriage- our respect for each other, his libido, my trust.  He really has come around to my way of thinking after seeing how it can affect us.  I'm not saying that this is the case for everyone, but it is for us.  The only healthy way for us to use porn is not at all.  Once we discussed it, we agreed that it needed to change.  Since it did, our marriage is much better.

There is no one size fits all answer to this issue.





Nicki1995
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:58 PM
My husband and i aren't interested in porn. If we want to watch porn, we will make our own with each other. Lol
Kittykatx
by Sammii. Tar ♥ on May. 5, 2013 at 4:59 PM
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Plus theres only so many angles that you can recieve of your mans junk before it gets samey lol

Quoting sugarcrisp:


Nicki1995
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:59 PM
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Exactly this


Quoting FL2AK:

We don't need to look at other people naked or having sex in order to have an amazing sex life. We do just fine with just the two of us. My husband feels the same way.

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