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how do i handle this

Posted by on May. 5, 2013 at 6:23 PM
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My birthday is on the 23rd. This will be my first birthday since my dad passed. Its hard knowing I won't get a phone call at midnight wishing me a happy birthday. He always liked being the first to say it. I been feeling down and kind of depressed. I don't know how to handle this.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 5, 2013 at 6:24 PM
Hugs. I am sorry for your loss. You know that he is still wishing it, only silently now.
PitbullPrincess
by Woof on May. 5, 2013 at 6:25 PM
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Light a candle at midnight, and say "Thanks, Dad!"

Hugs to you, Mama.


lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:25 PM

Do what is comfortable to you. Id having a cake is all you can handle that is OK . If not wanting to celebrate is what you choose then so be it. We all grieve differently and for different amounts of time. Hugs momma I'm sorry for your loss.

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on May. 5, 2013 at 6:26 PM

I'm so sorry (((hugs)))

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on May. 5, 2013 at 6:26 PM

I love this idea

Quoting PitbullPrincess:

Light a candle at midnight, and say "Thanks, Dad!"

Hugs to you, Mama.



"I give You my apathy, I give you all of me, I want Your symphony, singing in all that I am, at the top of my lungs, I'm giving it back, so I lay my head back down, & I lift my hands & I pray to be only Yours, I pray to be only Yours, I know now You're my only hope" Switchfoot

vegaswife2011
by Emerald Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:27 PM

Oh I'm so sorry for. Your loss. It will be hard, do your best to be strong. Big hugs

Buggy979
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:28 PM
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Pickbup the phone at midnight and say thanks dad i love you. . You might just here him say it. . :) hb
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dallascowboys82
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:29 PM
I like this idea..thanks


Quoting PitbullPrincess:

Light a candle at midnight, and say "Thanks, Dad!"

Hugs to you, Mama.



dallascowboys82
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:30 PM
My mom makes me a cake always has since I was little. I think I just will have cake this year.


Quoting lucky2Beeme:

Do what is comfortable to you. Id having a cake is all you can handle that is OK . If not wanting to celebrate is what you choose then so be it. We all grieve differently and for different amounts of time. Hugs momma I'm sorry for your loss.


Diamepphyre
by Platinum Member on May. 5, 2013 at 6:39 PM

This.  Such a wonderful idea.   *** Hugs ***

Quoting PitbullPrincess:

Light a candle at midnight, and say "Thanks, Dad!"

Hugs to you, Mama.



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