On my dhs phone. Yes I was snooping. He is sending pics to "work" , but it isn't work... just labeled as that in his contact! I found two pics. One of "her" lower body, and one from him of his lower torso... and beyond.... what am I supposed to do? Confront him, or ignore? Or call "work" and see wtf is going on?? EDIT : !!!! Dh is gay. Or so he says. He told me that he thought he could find out if it was just me by looking at this girl he works with, and if he was attractted then he would know he wasn't gay... he said that he was wanting a divorce anyways because he isn't sexually atractted to me anymore... but in a last effort to see if he was truly gay, he cheated on me... with a pretty blonde 19 yr old. Her name is kelsie.... this breaks me. I am so hurt and confused.