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cant get my bf to wife me

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We have been together for four years now and share a son. We have been living together for two years. we love each other deeply, and talk about marriage frequently but he says he isn't ready because he doesn't have the financial stability. I'm like we live together now and are struggling together now, so what's the difference. I really don't wanna wait much longer idk what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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Babymama7710
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:41 AM

Sucks to be u

QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:41 AM
Maybe he just doesn't want to get married
wumbo
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:41 AM
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Husband him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:42 AM

If you have already lived together, have a son and he still won't marry you, means he is prob never going to.

BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:42 AM

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.

mommy_dearest_
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:42 AM

You kind of sound like a whore.

Can't make a ho a housewife

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:42 AM
Same here.

He says he wants a church wedding. I might as well as accept he will never marry me. I don't want to marry him now.
M.I.A...P.O.W
by Bronze Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:44 AM
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Some of these women are being bitches just to be one. I would sit down and have a talk with him. Tell him your feelings but don't push him. If this is getting to the point of being a dealbreaker he needs to know.

alyssa1
by Bronze Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:46 AM
Well I'm not really trying to get mine to but I want to get married. We've been together 9 years in June and we have two kids. I guess my advice is can you accept having to wait or the idea that he may not want to. U need to decide if ts a deal breaker or not and if u can or can't live with it, you may have to end it and leave.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 7, 2013 at 11:47 AM
Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.

Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.

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