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cant get my bf to wife me

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We have been together for four years now and share a son. We have been living together for two years. we love each other deeply, and talk about marriage frequently but he says he isn't ready because he doesn't have the financial stability. I'm like we live together now and are struggling together now, so what's the difference. I really don't wanna wait much longer idk what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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Logan_Bellasmom
by Ruby Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:48 AM

Mooooooo!

o.O....
by Cara on May. 7, 2013 at 11:48 AM
Lol... What?

Op- if it's that important to you to get married you need to tell him straight out. But be prepared to wait a while- or forever, because it doesn't seem like he wants to marry you.


Quoting mommy_dearest_:

You kind of sound like a whore.


Can't make a ho a housewife


Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 11:49 AM

 idk, just wanted to say that, lol


Quoting o.O....:

Lol... What?

Op- if it's that important to you to get married you need to tell him straight out. But be prepared to wait a while- or forever, because it doesn't seem like he wants to marry you.


Quoting mommy_dearest_:

You kind of sound like a whore.


Can't make a ho a housewife



 

MomTo2Boys12
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:50 AM
Yeah really.

Quoting Anonymous:

Since when was "wife" a verb?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 11:50 AM
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My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard

EvilAsh
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM

Maybe he just flat out doesn't want to get married. I was like that for the longest time. My now husband and I had two kids and were together 5 years and friends for 5 before that before I finally gave in and said yes. To me, it was just a piece of paper and a name change. To him, it meant more.

EvilAsh
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM

Now I want a frickin milkshake. Boo.

Quoting Anonymous:

My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard


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Kool_Aide
by Gold Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:51 AM

Why would you have a kid first if marriage is this important to you?

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.

Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.


dbush0584
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:52 AM

Because they have a kid and live together?

Quoting mommy_dearest_:

You kind of sound like a whore.

Can't make a ho a housewife


BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:52 AM

I would suggest telling him that. So, he doesn't continue stringing you along.

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.

Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.


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