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cant get my bf to wife me

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We have been together for four years now and share a son. We have been living together for two years. we love each other deeply, and talk about marriage frequently but he says he isn't ready because he doesn't have the financial stability. I'm like we live together now and are struggling together now, so what's the difference. I really don't wanna wait much longer idk what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 7, 2013 at 11:53 AM
I'm obviously i got pregnant. I know it's out of order but, i happened.

Quoting Kool_Aide:

Why would you have a kid first if marriage is this important to you?

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.



Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:54 AM

Here I Go Again On My Own

sorry thout that song was appropriate

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:54 AM

Maybe he doesn't want to marry you because you think 'wife' is a verb.

Kool_Aide
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:54 AM

But, you are willing to end the relationship if marriage doesn't happen......but bringing a child into the world seems like there was less thought.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm obviously i got pregnant. I know it's out of order but, i happened.

Quoting Kool_Aide:

Why would you have a kid first if marriage is this important to you?

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.



Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.



mommy_dearest_
by on May. 7, 2013 at 11:55 AM

 birth control is your friend, I wish you lived near me, I would have bought you some condoms


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm obviously i got pregnant. I know it's out of order but, i happened.

Quoting Kool_Aide:

Why would you have a kid first if marriage is this important to you?

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly but if he doesn't wanna get married i can't see us lasting.



Quoting BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs:

Well, I agree with you. Being a family, you already struggle together.

I would have to say, he just doesn't want to get married. Just feels pressured because its what you want.



 

lapcounter
by Queen Mom on May. 7, 2013 at 11:55 AM


Quoting notjstasocermom:

he doesn't wanna get married

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:55 AM

Why woul he marry you? You have given him everything an he won't marry. He does not love you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:56 AM
You gave it up freely and didn't make him work for it. Why should he want to get married. He's got what he wants.
BeAuTiFuL.BLiSs
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2013 at 11:59 AM

If marriage is that important to you and a deal breaker, then you should give him x amount of time to get married or you are leaving. He needs to know this.

Why is marriage so important to you? Just curious.

If you guys have a child together, breaking up the family over this, just doesn't seem right.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on May. 7, 2013 at 11:59 AM

 Why buy the cow if the milk is free?

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