Last year, a friend I had known for 4 years asked me to be his girlfriend. I knew it was coming and I was so excited! We dated for several months and decided to move in together. The only problem was he lived 11 hours away. We decided since I had an apartment and a dead end job (even though I loved it!) and he had a house and a job with a secure future, that I should be the one to move. After family problems and other problems I thought a fresh start would be good for us. I have a 7 year old already, and I always dreamed of my children growing up close to my family, attending the same school that the past 4 generations had already attended, and living in a place where everyone knew everyone. I realized what I was giving up would be hard to give up, but I thought if for the best. Now that we are expecting, I realize that my dreams for my children haven't changed, and I feel it even stronger than before. I'm a SAHM and I don't have any friends here except for my DF's friends and his boss' family. He told me that we could move if it would make me happy, and in all honesty it would! But, if we moved and he were unhappy, I'd be unhappy as well. His house will be paid off next year. He farms for someone else, and if he stays here he will own a portion of the farm someday. He LOVES his job. Would I be wrong to bring it up again as a suggestion? Or is it ok to discuss it? I would hate for him to be unhappy, but at the same time, I feel like my family is suffering. My mom was real close to DS until we moved, and now it's killing her just knowing that the baby won't be close to her like DS is/was. What would you do if it was you? Please keep things civil, respectful and honest. Thanks!