The first therapist I found who was able to meet the majority of my needs is male. Because I wanted to start immediately,I thought I'd give it a try and see if I could be comfortable talking about my sexual assault issues with a man.
I've actually done very well on therapy and actually had a pretty big breakthrough yesterday after only 3 visits. My issue is, my husband thinksit's weird that I would talk about these things with a man. He also says that it makes him uncomfortable. If I mention therapy or my therapist at all, we end up in a huge fight, like last night.
I feel torn; do I start divulging all this stuff and try to get comfortable with a new,female therapist to appease my DH, or do I continue to see my therapist and just not talk,about it with DH so as not to aggravate his insecurities? :(