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What is the most effective thing to spank with?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I haven't really spanked my kids much. The few times I have, they have just laughed at me. My son keeps sneaking food and drinks into the living room. The space in front of the TV has several dirty patches from him spilling and the carpet collecting grime. No matter what I say, do, or take away, he continues to do it.

Well, I told him the last time that if he did it again that he was going to get spanked. I got up this morning and there was a hot pocket wrapper and a soda can on the TV stand.

When he gets home from school, I am going to explain to him that he made a choice and has earned his punishment.

Since my hand doesn't even phase him, what should I use to make sure he thinks twice about doing it again.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 7, 2013 at 6:29 PM
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weezer_cookie
by Platinum Member on May. 7, 2013 at 6:29 PM
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Nothing.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 7, 2013 at 6:30 PM

a belt

BluePandaDreams
by on May. 7, 2013 at 6:31 PM
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Nothing. Make him clean the living room.
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tardistraveller
by on May. 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM

wow.  How old is your kid?  If he's old enough to make himself hot pockets he's probably too old to spank.  

ps. where I live, it's illegal to strike a child with an object.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM
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Hitting isn't a logical consequence... And it would be abusive to use anything but an open hand. Clearly spanking in the past hasn't been effective, why would it be now? Keep thinking...........
jojo_star
by on May. 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM

I never have and never will spank my children. 

icn_mom
by on May. 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM
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ummmm, yeah ok, lets find a way to actually hurt our kid... sounds like a winner to me...

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 7, 2013 at 6:32 PM
I can't just continue to let him ruin the carpet and nothing else has worked.

Quoting weezer_cookie:

Nothing.
IandLoveandYou
by Penny Lane on May. 7, 2013 at 6:33 PM
I thought this post was going to be more fun
:(.

Well.. What I was going to say is that I loooove a whip.. But my husbands hand is still the best for spankings :D.
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chalisa0
by Ruby Member on May. 7, 2013 at 6:34 PM
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LOL.  You have to know that this is starting a firestorm on this site.  

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