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OH HELL NO

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I'm dating a guy in the Air Force who's still technically married....and I really don't feel bad at all!

Obviously not a lot of people know because I refuse to let him be too open about it for the sake of his career. People around here know cuz it's our hometown, bit where he's stationed only a few of his buddies know he's dating me.

He just got a promotion and I don't want him to screw anything up knowing that he wants to be career.

His stbx is a basket case...even though he filed long enough ago that a judge.could grant the divorce now, psycho is fighting him every step of the way trying to get everything she can outta him, even though he took care of her cheating ass way longer than he ever shoulda.

Can't wait for the divorce to be final so I can finally be there with him!
Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2013 at 2:10 AM
Replies (11-20):
mattiehatter
by Mary on May. 8, 2013 at 2:49 AM
Yikes. How long were they married?


Quoting Anonymous:

as of now it's sounding like another 6 months at least unless one of them caves...but she wanta 1/3 of his pay for a yr, the car that's in his name that he's still paying for, the animals, his college benefits, and for him to pay for any debt she/they acquired...all while she's sleeping with another guy in the AF.



Quoting mattiehatter:

Hopefully he's granted that divorce soon. Good luck with the sharks.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 2:49 AM
why cuz I fell in love with someone who's an amazing man, filed for divorce and hasn't really been with his stbx in over a yr cuz she wouldn't quit cheating on him..and now wants to take him for everything possible and then some dragging the divorce out.

Quoting Anonymous:

Shame on you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 2:50 AM
yr and a half, no kids, and she continued to work..though couldn't seem to hold a job. and she's from there. they met after he got stationed there, so she's still living in her hometown.

Quoting mattiehatter:

Yikes. How long were they married?




Quoting Anonymous:

as of now it's sounding like another 6 months at least unless one of them caves...but she wanta 1/3 of his pay for a yr, the car that's in his name that he's still paying for, the animals, his college benefits, and for him to pay for any debt she/they acquired...all while she's sleeping with another guy in the AF.





Quoting mattiehatter:

Hopefully he's granted that divorce soon. Good luck with the sharks.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 8, 2013 at 2:52 AM
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He's still married. Until the divorce is final, you're a skank and he is a douchebag cheater.


Quoting Anonymous:

why cuz I fell in love with someone who's an amazing man, filed for divorce and hasn't really been with his stbx in over a yr cuz she wouldn't quit cheating on him..and now wants to take him for everything possible and then some dragging the divorce out.



Quoting Anonymous:

Shame on you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 2:54 AM
cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.

Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 2:56 AM
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definitely not a skank.

so by your definition, if someone is separated for several yrs but no divorce for one reason or another he's still a douchebag. his ex knows by dragging it out she's making him more miserable, she's a nutcase.

I won't let her dragging their divorce out stop me from loving him.

Quoting Anonymous:

He's still married. Until the divorce is final, you're a skank and he is a douchebag cheater.




Quoting Anonymous:

why cuz I fell in love with someone who's an amazing man, filed for divorce and hasn't really been with his stbx in over a yr cuz she wouldn't quit cheating on him..and now wants to take him for everything possible and then some dragging the divorce out.





Quoting Anonymous:

Shame on you.

mama-sita
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:01 AM

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?


Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.

Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 8, 2013 at 3:03 AM

Gross. I hope you realize the story he is hand feeding you likely isn't an accurate representation of whatever facts there are. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:05 AM
he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.

she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.

Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?



Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.



Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 




mama-sita
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:07 AM

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.


Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.

she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.

Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?



Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.



Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 






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