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I'm dating a guy in the Air Force who's still technically married....and I really don't feel bad at all!

Obviously not a lot of people know because I refuse to let him be too open about it for the sake of his career. People around here know cuz it's our hometown, bit where he's stationed only a few of his buddies know he's dating me.

He just got a promotion and I don't want him to screw anything up knowing that he wants to be career.

His stbx is a basket case...even though he filed long enough ago that a judge.could grant the divorce now, psycho is fighting him every step of the way trying to get everything she can outta him, even though he took care of her cheating ass way longer than he ever shoulda.

Can't wait for the divorce to be final so I can finally be there with him!
Posted by Anonymous on May. 8, 2013 at 2:10 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:07 AM
actually, I know it is. he's admitted to his faults along the way, has no problem with that. but she's a nutcase...who drives their car through a garage door to hit another car just because they're pissed..

Quoting Anonymous:

Gross. I hope you realize the story he is hand feeding you likely isn't an accurate representation of whatever facts there are. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:10 AM
complete. a few weeks ago she showed up at his work to talk about the divorce. had to be escorted out. then that same night he woke up to her climbing into bed at the house. kicked her out, she landed on the couch...then the next morning after he had to yell at her to get the hell out, instead if backing outta the driveway she put the car in drive and drove through his garage door and messed up both the cars...both if which he is still the one paying on.

Quoting mama-sita:

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.



Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.



she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.



Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?




Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.





Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 








mama-sita
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:15 AM

Such a gem.  My SO's ex wife sounds almost as bad.  He sent her to New York two years ago, filed and got the divorce within about 3 months of sending her, and when she found out he was with me and we were having a baby, she flipped out!!!  She actually thought they were going to get back together.  I mean, really?  She started sending me emails through facebook calling me a slut and a homewrecker.  I showed them to SO and he got pissed as hell.  She sent him an email saying, "I hate your girlfriend, just so ya know" because I posted pictures of the two of us and tagged him in them on Facebook.  She's NUTS!  She freaks out over the stupidest things like a bookbag she left here from when she was in school 6 YEARS ago and said she didn't want me or my boys to "taint it" and wanted it sent to NY IMMEDIATELY!!!  SO told her to get over herself and hung up on her.  Ugg!  What's frustrating is they have a 4 year old daughter so he kind of has to deal with her.


Quoting Anonymous:

complete. a few weeks ago she showed up at his work to talk about the divorce. had to be escorted out. then that same night he woke up to her climbing into bed at the house. kicked her out, she landed on the couch...then the next morning after he had to yell at her to get the hell out, instead if backing outta the driveway she put the car in drive and drove through his garage door and messed up both the cars...both if which he is still the one paying on.

Quoting mama-sita:

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.



Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.



she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.



Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?




Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.





Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 










Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:19 AM
I'm so glad I've been kept.outta her BS. I'm actually dreading the say she finds out about me because I already know it won't go over well at all. especially since he's likely to be stationed there several more years because of the job he.does, it's inevitable that I'll end up in the same area...and wouldn't be surprising if I ran across her since she seems to have a thing for guys in the military and won't quit jumpin between em.

Quoting mama-sita:

Such a gem.  My SO's ex wife sounds almost as bad.  He sent her to New York two years ago, filed and got the divorce within about 3 months of sending her, and when she found out he was with me and we were having a baby, she flipped out!!!  She actually thought they were going to get back together.  I mean, really?  She started sending me emails through facebook calling me a slut and a homewrecker.  I showed them to SO and he got pissed as hell.  She sent him an email saying, "I hate your girlfriend, just so ya know" because I posted pictures of the two of us and tagged him in them on Facebook.  She's NUTS!  She freaks out over the stupidest things like a bookbag she left here from when she was in school 6 YEARS ago and said she didn't want me or my boys to "taint it" and wanted it sent to NY IMMEDIATELY!!!  SO told her to get over herself and hung up on her.  Ugg!  What's frustrating is they have a 4 year old daughter so he kind of has to deal with her.



Quoting Anonymous:

complete. a few weeks ago she showed up at his work to talk about the divorce. had to be escorted out. then that same night he woke up to her climbing into bed at the house. kicked her out, she landed on the couch...then the next morning after he had to yell at her to get the hell out, instead if backing outta the driveway she put the car in drive and drove through his garage door and messed up both the cars...both if which he is still the one paying on.



Quoting mama-sita:

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.




Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.





she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.





Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?





Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.







Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 













mama-sita
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:21 AM

Ever wonder why these great guys chose these complete psychos before they meet us?  SMH


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm so glad I've been kept.outta her BS. I'm actually dreading the say she finds out about me because I already know it won't go over well at all. especially since he's likely to be stationed there several more years because of the job he.does, it's inevitable that I'll end up in the same area...and wouldn't be surprising if I ran across her since she seems to have a thing for guys in the military and won't quit jumpin between em.

Quoting mama-sita:

Such a gem.  My SO's ex wife sounds almost as bad.  He sent her to New York two years ago, filed and got the divorce within about 3 months of sending her, and when she found out he was with me and we were having a baby, she flipped out!!!  She actually thought they were going to get back together.  I mean, really?  She started sending me emails through facebook calling me a slut and a homewrecker.  I showed them to SO and he got pissed as hell.  She sent him an email saying, "I hate your girlfriend, just so ya know" because I posted pictures of the two of us and tagged him in them on Facebook.  She's NUTS!  She freaks out over the stupidest things like a bookbag she left here from when she was in school 6 YEARS ago and said she didn't want me or my boys to "taint it" and wanted it sent to NY IMMEDIATELY!!!  SO told her to get over herself and hung up on her.  Ugg!  What's frustrating is they have a 4 year old daughter so he kind of has to deal with her.



Quoting Anonymous:

complete. a few weeks ago she showed up at his work to talk about the divorce. had to be escorted out. then that same night he woke up to her climbing into bed at the house. kicked her out, she landed on the couch...then the next morning after he had to yell at her to get the hell out, instead if backing outta the driveway she put the car in drive and drove through his garage door and messed up both the cars...both if which he is still the one paying on.



Quoting mama-sita:

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.




Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.





she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.





Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?





Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.







Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 















manda-nicole010
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:23 AM

How did you meet him if you don't live in the same area as him? Is this some LDR where you two haven't actually met in person yet? Just curious. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:26 AM
he readily admits she was a one night stand gone wrong lol young and stupid.

Quoting mama-sita:

Ever wonder why these great guys chose these complete psychos before they meet us?  SMH



Quoting Anonymous:

I'm so glad I've been kept.outta her BS. I'm actually dreading the say she finds out about me because I already know it won't go over well at all. especially since he's likely to be stationed there several more years because of the job he.does, it's inevitable that I'll end up in the same area...and wouldn't be surprising if I ran across her since she seems to have a thing for guys in the military and won't quit jumpin between em.



Quoting mama-sita:

Such a gem.  My SO's ex wife sounds almost as bad.  He sent her to New York two years ago, filed and got the divorce within about 3 months of sending her, and when she found out he was with me and we were having a baby, she flipped out!!!  She actually thought they were going to get back together.  I mean, really?  She started sending me emails through facebook calling me a slut and a homewrecker.  I showed them to SO and he got pissed as hell.  She sent him an email saying, "I hate your girlfriend, just so ya know" because I posted pictures of the two of us and tagged him in them on Facebook.  She's NUTS!  She freaks out over the stupidest things like a bookbag she left here from when she was in school 6 YEARS ago and said she didn't want me or my boys to "taint it" and wanted it sent to NY IMMEDIATELY!!!  SO told her to get over herself and hung up on her.  Ugg!  What's frustrating is they have a 4 year old daughter so he kind of has to deal with her.




Quoting Anonymous:

complete. a few weeks ago she showed up at his work to talk about the divorce. had to be escorted out. then that same night he woke up to her climbing into bed at the house. kicked her out, she landed on the couch...then the next morning after he had to yell at her to get the hell out, instead if backing outta the driveway she put the car in drive and drove through his garage door and messed up both the cars...both if which he is still the one paying on.





Quoting mama-sita:

Nice, the texts will help.  Not sure about the pictures.  She sounds like a loon.





Quoting Anonymous:

he has texts if her admitting to it, but until today hasn't had anything else. he finally caught her with another guy in the AF and managed pictures for his attorney.







she got pissed a few weeks ago and tried accusing him of rape and abuse, she's just crazy and doin everything she can to make his life hell.







Quoting mama-sita:

She won't get that much, if anything.  Does he have proof of her infidelity?






Quoting Anonymous:

cuz it's cafemom, most women on here think they're better than anyone else. hopefully sooner than lawyers are saying..his ex is tryin to take him fkr everything and then some. together a yr and a half, ahe cheated on him multiple timea and is now sleeping with another guy stationed there.. wanta 1/3 of his pay for 1 yr, his college benefits, the animals, the car that's in his name that he's oaid for cuz she never kept a job longer than a month, for him to pay off a her debts...and they have no kids together, plus they met after he got stationed there so she's still in her hometown.









Quoting mama-sita:

You're gonna get your ass chewed and soon.  I don't understand why, but I've seen it happen before.  I'm sorry and hope the divorce is finalized soon. 



















Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 8, 2013 at 3:27 AM
he's from here but stationed somewhere else. so I've known him since we were 12/13

Quoting manda-nicole010:

How did you meet him if you don't live in the same area as him? Is this some LDR where you two haven't actually met in person yet? Just curious. 

mommy_dearest_
by on May. 8, 2013 at 3:28 AM
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I wish I didn't have insomnia

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 8, 2013 at 3:30 AM
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Keep telling yourself that honey. Your wonderful victimized man is just telling you that so you will keep giving him some a$$! So, in the glorious words of Nene, "Close your legs to married men!"

tsk tsk

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