I got married 3 months into dating my dh. It was crazy, i regretted it immediately but over the years we have made it work. We have been together more than 9 years. I always knew he wasn't a dancer but this weekend for some reason it got to me. We were at a party and I wanted to dance but he wouldn't even try. I haven't danced in years! I ended up dancing with my kids and my dad. I am outgoing he is whatever. I like to go out, he is a homebody. We are so different from each other sometimes I wonder why were still together. Did you marry your opposite? Did you struggle with it?